I agree that if he continues to feel this way, she needs to honor his feelings. However, as his question asked if this is a thing ok for a Christian woman to do, I stand by what I said earlier.
I agree that there need to be boundaries of some sort - and a husband or wife's opinion is important for that - but my personal opinion of whether it is ok for a Christian woman to do (and incidentally my husband's) is that it is not inherently a bad thing.
We will have to agree to disagree on this. I understand that in your marriage, your spouse is okay with you having opposite sex friendships. You haven't had any issues with infidelity or problems maintaining boundaries. However, if you're going to ask whether this is something in general that a Christian wife to do, shouldn't you take into account what the general recommendation is (from therapists, ministers etc.) rather than just from your own personal experience? From the sources I've read so far, having close and intimate friendships with those of the opposite sex is an unwise decision to make. They can be a breeding ground for emotional affairs. While it's not an inherently bad thing to do, it most definitely is an unwise decision to make especially when one's spouse has already objected to the relationship.
Here are some articles from Christian sources:
Today's Christian Woman
Foundation Restoration
Focus on the Family
Marriage Builders
In Scientific American, they reviewed a study where the findings Here is a quote, "Although women seem to be genuine in their belief that opposite-sex friendships are platonic, men seem unable to turn off their desire for something more."
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