The line between casual sex & rape has been blurred. I never said you were talking about that but I am talking about this because it happens all of the time.
You know what has blurred the line between casual sex and rape?
Virgin/harlot mindsets that portray any woman who's had sex once as a harlot who'll have sex with anybody.
The view pushed since roughly the Renaissance that women don't enjoy sex, which makes "no," pretty meaningless because of the assumption that women will
always start by saying no.
The concept that sex is "lost" or "given" (and thus can be "taken") rather than something that people create and experience together.
To people who enjoy healthy sex, the distinction couldn't be more obvious. The most sexually active people I know are the ones who are the first to ask, "What do you want? What are you limits?" Yes, I've been to sex- and fetish-themed parties and, interesting fact, alcohol is
banned at them, because it interferes with people's abilities to have those conversations.
In short, it is people
on your side, who have blurred this line. Every time somebody talks about "losing" virginity, or about virgins and harlots
they blur the line between casual sex and rape. People who are pursuing more sexually open consent-oriented cultures are actively working against your rape culture tripe.
