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Let me first explain my reason for posting here. I, myself, am not denomination specific, but for the past seven years I have been a member of a Southern Baptist church. Frankly I don't like it much, but doctrine is not the issue. I mostly agree with the doctrine, the differences being mostly about things on which it pretty much doesn't matter who's right. I have never spotted any Biblical error being preached from the pulpit, that I know of, although I have known the pastor on occasion to accidentally cite an urban legend as if it were true. I don't see that as a big deal either. A lot of people make those mistakes. That's how they get to be urban legends.
The reason I don't like the church much involves some members of the congregation, not the doctrine.
And this issue is pretty big. If true, it just might reflect on the church itself, not the individual, since the person who has my hackles up was speaking in an official capacity.
A couple in their late teens is engaged, but not yet married. Their projected wedding date is at least a year away, probably longer. They wisely want to make sure all of their ducks are in a row first. It somehow became known that they slipped up once, if you know what I mean, but they recognize that they did wrong and don't plan to repeat their mistake. The youth pastor has, according to the young lady involved, told her that if she had become pregnant, she would have been "thrown out of the church," were the words I heard.
The question of whether this also applies to the young man involved is almost secondary to the question of whether this should happen at all! I am in no way condoning sin. I well recognize that when our brothers and sisters err, we are obligated to point it out to them. But to disfellowship a young woman who is a fairly new convert and has been baptized only a few months ago, for making one mistake? With or without disfellowshipping him as well, since she didn't make that mistake by herself? Would Jesus Christ work like that?
What say you?
The reason I don't like the church much involves some members of the congregation, not the doctrine.
And this issue is pretty big. If true, it just might reflect on the church itself, not the individual, since the person who has my hackles up was speaking in an official capacity.
A couple in their late teens is engaged, but not yet married. Their projected wedding date is at least a year away, probably longer. They wisely want to make sure all of their ducks are in a row first. It somehow became known that they slipped up once, if you know what I mean, but they recognize that they did wrong and don't plan to repeat their mistake. The youth pastor has, according to the young lady involved, told her that if she had become pregnant, she would have been "thrown out of the church," were the words I heard.
The question of whether this also applies to the young man involved is almost secondary to the question of whether this should happen at all! I am in no way condoning sin. I well recognize that when our brothers and sisters err, we are obligated to point it out to them. But to disfellowship a young woman who is a fairly new convert and has been baptized only a few months ago, for making one mistake? With or without disfellowshipping him as well, since she didn't make that mistake by herself? Would Jesus Christ work like that?
What say you?
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