God always comes first to the sinner as a conqueror before He comes as a Comforter.
He conquerors our rebellion and then comes and comforts their broken heart. He comes as Lord before He comes as Comforter. If He hasn't conquerored you He hasn't saved you.
All of the religions of the world except true Christianity have one thing in common... they all teach that you have to BE GOOD and DO GOOD in order to become right with God. True Christianity is totally unique in that it teaches that we come to Christ just as we are, and trust that what He did on the cross saves us and nothing we do. Then God puts the Holy Spirit in us and we start producing the fruits of the Spirit... which are goodness and self-control and love for God etc. So with Christianity first we are justified then we start being good and doing good.
Lordship salvation is so popular because it is simply another worldly religion which teaches that we have to BE GOOD and DO GOOD before we can be be sure that God accepts us. It says that first God regenerates us... (that makes us BE GOOD) then we choose to follow the Lord in submission and obedience...( we make a godly choice... which, obviously, making godly choices is DOING GOOD) So we have to be good and do good and only then can we trust that Christ saves us.
This is actually just a really subtle way to teach the same legalistic religion that the other religions of the world all teach. Be good and do good and then you can be sure (trust and have faith) that God accepts you.
With real Christianity we are given faith by God and we believe and trust that Jesus' blood automatically saves us... so we are then justified. We are justified by faith alone. We are still ungodly when that happens. Paul says that "to the one who does not work but believes on Him who justifies THE UNGODLY (not the regenerate and morally submissive) his faith is credited to him as righteousness"
So God gives us faith and justifies us while we are still ungodly and haven't done any moral works whatsoever. Only then does the Spirit regenerate us and enter us and produce good works (moral choices)
When you say that he conquers our rebellion first and later he comforts us ....you are saying that first we become obedient to Him in our hearts but are not yet comforted because we do not yet trust that His blood saved us personally from God's wrath.
So according to you a person can make the godly choice to be obedient to Christ and follow all His commandments and ways but has no comfort because he doesn't trust that the blood of Jesus covers his sin. (If he did trust that the blood of Christ covers his sin he would have comfort) So since he doesn't have faith in the blood of Christ he is unsaved
So here we have a lost unbeliever who is attempting to obey God's will. That is nothing but a moralist who thinks he is a Christian!!!!!
So Lordship salvation is not salvation at all... it is really just a stealth moralism which mascarades as Christianity. It says ... be good, do good and then you can be comforted by believing you are saved.