No my husband seems fine with his lack of faith and doesn't seem conflicted at all about politics. It seems he just needs to tell me that objectively, he is right, and I am wrong. Anyway, if I keep a lot to myself it tends to work out better, which is what I have been doing. He is also bitter and resentful about having to work full time. He bought a house with cash and wanted to "retire" and slowly fix it up by working pt. (He is 31) Got a vasectomy to ensure he would never have kids. Well... I changed my mind and want them, I also wanted to be out of this house sooner rather than later (he bought it before we married, it wasn't a joint decision). So he has to work full time to make a lot of stuff happen, like getting a reverse vas, fixing up the place faster, etc. Every morning before work and every night when he comes home he is absolutely miserable--or at least he puts on a good show for me. I am now learning to detach from that, and stop caring if it's all my fault, etc. I have started to see that he can make the best of this situation or not, and that it's his choice, not mine. I changed, but people change, and marriages have to weather change. Thanks for the advice in this thread.
We used to have similar views, but then I became a Christian. I had a political "deconversion" too. I used to be a social justice warrior type, very deep in the lifestyle, radical leftist, but that has changed quite a bit and I find myself on the conservative side these days. When we met I was living in a house with three other people and not working, going to meditation retreats-- I've grown up a lot.
I spend a lot of time reading political blogs, etc, and occasionally i get involved in the comment section. I ended up meeting someone in the comment section of one, and we have had similar deconversion experiences, politically moving from the far left activist world to a more conservative perspective. Turns out we are also from the same town, he is considering Christianity, etc. We have been emailing, and it doesn't feel right because I generally feel more understood by this person on the internet, more listened to and appreciated, then I do by my husband. I know this is a potentially dangerous situation. It's just pretty crappy all around. But things do seem better around the house, probably because I've been detaching.
TLDR; I am the poster child for why passionate elopement is a terrible idea. I'm digging myself into sin, most likely, and feel hopeless about it, but the marriage is surviving. In need of prayer.