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My dad, stepdad, and grandpa have coached various kids sports over the years, but I don't think they've experienced anything as extreme as parents physically fighting with one another. I've never actually asked any of them about it, though. I don't think parents were rude to them, either, but it's very possible that they were and I just never witnessed it. The closest I can recall is that this mom was over the top upset her daughter had to wear a swim cap in the pool for the meet. She told my stepdad her daughter's hair hurt, and started screaming at him when he laughed. Not her head, her hair. From what I've observed the sports drama was tame in comparison to that of dance competitions. The show Dance Moms is of course hyperbolic but yet there are some elements of truth to it. When I was a kid my team won a national championship and was about to be inducted into the Hall of Fame, but then we got disqualified because parents of the 2nd place team had measured our prop and discovered it was like an inch too high according to the competition rulebook. The thing is, they sneakily measured it before we competed but tried to claim some moral high ground that the reason for the objection was our safety. If we hadn't won, then they never would have said anything about it. The very lowest of the low, though, was that a MOM had been posting rumors and cruel comments about girls her daughters were friends with but competed against (including me!) under an alias on YouTube.
Yes, girl's and young women's activities can get down right 'nasty.' I have all boys, but the men I work with have mostly daughters.
Yes the 'ladies' can get worse than the 'men' on this.
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