I hear this a lot, but I find it very confusing.
What does this mean? How is "spirituality" different from "connecting with God".
If the Bible is to be believed (and I think, of course, that it ought to be), there is no real spirituality, no real spiritual life, apart from a relationship with God through Christ. Those who have not been saved and thereby spiritually regenerated are "dead in trespasses and sins." (
Eph. 2:1, 5) Whatever an unbeliever may describe as spirituality, as far as God is concerned, it is not genuine spiritual life, which can only be obtained from Him.
When I have pressed unbelievers to explain what they mean when they say they are "spiritual," ultimately and invariably what they mean is a positive emotional state/experience. They are "at peace within," or "balanced" or "in touch with the cosmos or nature" or "seeing themselves clearly" and/or have achieved "inner harmony," etc. Each of these statements boils down - at least in my experience - to a positive feeling or set of feelings that are utterly subjective in character.
For the Christian person, spiritual life is imparted by the indwelling Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Christ.
Romans 8:9-11
9 But you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. Now if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he is not His.
10 And if Christ is in you, the body is dead because of sin, but the Spirit is life because of righteousness.
11 But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you.
The Holy Spirit is not a manipulator of our emotions but an Agent of conviction (
Jn. 16:8), an Illuminator of our
minds (
1Cor. 2:12-14)
, and a Transformer of our desires and will (
2Cor. 3:18; Phil. 2:13). As the Holy Spirit works to change us, our emotions fall in line with what He is doing in our mind and will, but unlike the "spirituality" of the unregenerate person, our emotions are never to be the fundamental ground of our spiritual experience.
Romans 12:2
2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
Romans 7:25
25 I thank God--through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, with the mind I myself serve the law of God...
1 Corinthians 2:16
16 For "who has known the mind of the Lord that he may instruct Him?" But we have the mind of Christ.
Selah.