You have yet to back up your accusation that you have ever asked me to back it up with dictionary definitions.
However, regardless of your accusation lacking any support at this time:
Phenotype: the set of observable characteristics of an individual resulting from the interaction of its genotype with the environment.
Genotype: the genetic constitution of an individual organism.
Gender: the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex
A phenotypical male would be someone with the physical sex of male.
A genotypical male would be one with XY chromosomes.
A gendered male would be one with the behavioral, cultural or psychological traits typical of a male.
You've provided definitions and so have I. Given that I have referenced there being a phenotype, genotype and gender involved 5 times outside of this topic, you cannot say I've never provided those before. Since there are clearly more than one way to define male and female, my point is satisfied.
Interestingly, the definition you cite about males producing gametes means that children cannot be males and sterile men are not males. Clearly that cannot be the only definition of male.
I asked for a link to where you have ever asked me for these definitions and .... nothing?