Would it not be immoral to bring your children up in poverty if you could bring them up with everything they need?
How would you do this? Would you be rich but make your children not have enough to eat?
However, don't most us parents make our children live
partly in poverty? Don't we deliberately make them work for their spending money (chores, jobs while in high school, etc)? Don't we consider this
good so that our children understand how to make choices with their money and to understand that "what they need" has to be
earned by work?
Didn't your parents do this to you, or did they give you every possible luxury they could?
Do you think someone who has brain damage and so is unrestrained by their conscience is more free? Do you think those with a strong conscience are less free? Are the Angels not free?
Freedom is the ability to make real choices. That is, choices that have real consequences. My children chose the colleges they attended. Now, if I were to have kept the letters of acceptance of all the colleges but one, were they "free"? Did they have a "free choice"? No.
The problem with having a universe where God ensures there is no suffering of any kind -- either caused by nature or by humans -- is that we are then not free to make choices. God is making the choices for us by letting us choose only those choices that give "good" outcomes. This would be true if He manipulated nature so that there were no "bad" outcomes like birth defects or landslides that hit schoolbusses, etc.
Love means letting those you love have lives that have meaning. It means
not manipulating the lives of your loved ones so that they only have "good" outcomes. People who do manipulate the lives of their children are called "control freaks" and we generally agree that such parents are not showing love to their children. You want God to be like those parents?
I think it is more comparable to creating a 25 year old person with memories of things that didn't happen and a scar of an injury which they never received. In that case God would seem to be a deceiver. Its not just that we can see the stars, but that they (and everything else) looks old and connected in an unnecessary way. Its as if God made up a false history of a Big Bang and evolution of the galaxies and animals. It goes far beyond God making the universe look pretty.
Exactly. This is the theological problem with God only making the universe to "look" old. Doing so means telling us a lie. When we can see stars hundreds of thousands of light years away but supposedly the universe is only 6,000 years old, then God is telling us a lie. We can't accept a God that tells us lies. That is why Christians rejected the argument that the universe or earth only looks old back in 1858.
What you have highlighted is one of the dangers of creationism for God and Christianity. In order to preserve creationism, creationists often use arguments that, if believed, would destroy Christianity and belief in God.
Faith is acceptance as valid of personal experience that is not intersubjective. That is, faith is having evidence that not everyone has but believing that evidence is true.
Theism and Christianity have evidence. As you have noted, if you
insist that Christianity must include creationism, then you are asking people to believe
in spite of the evidence, not
because of the evidence.
If my conscience and desires fight for my action, and I act on one rather than another, have I really made a choice or did just the stronger impulse win?
You made a choice. And that choice has real consequences for yourself, others, and the future.
I have no problem with the acceptance of grace. I was in love with God for a long time.
Loving God isn't grace. Grace is the love of God for us.
"Grace can be defined as the love and mercy given to us by God because God wants us to have it, not because of anything we have done to earn it. "
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