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The top 10 complaints from Unhappy Husbands

Discussion in 'Mature Singles' started by memoriesbymichelle, Mar 26, 2014.

  1. memoriesbymichelle

    memoriesbymichelle Senior Veteran

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    dayhiker Mature veteran

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    I could see most of the complaints the guys were making. Our society is so driven that we have to accomplish more and more, learn more and more, produce, accumulate, go go go. It takes time to stop and feel, not only to feel what our partner is feeling but also to feel who we are inside. Then it takes more time to figure out how to respond to those feelings. But so often we don't have time because we have a list of things that need to be accomplished.

    Right now I could be working on my bathroom. And I'd really like to get my new shower base in so I could take a shower rather than washing up. But I find posting here to do more for my inner man than completing the list. Now not everyone can relax as they have money to make to just pay the bills. Or their kids are demanding their attention. I'm talking about lists we create that might make us rich or that we have an impressive house or climb some ladder but doesn't do anything for our soul because we haven't been with God or we don't have a friend we can hang out with.

    So I saw most of the problems being they weren't taking time to be each others friend, to look each other in the eyes, to cuddle and hug and to have sex. In my book there isn't much better than being intimate for a few hours.
     
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    memoriesbymichelle Senior Veteran

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    True... also there is a reason God created Adam and Eve. Whether or not people want to admit it we need each other.

    when I read the list I thought of Iambren for a lot of them. :D
     
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    "The top 10 complaints from Unhappy Husbands"


    This is so easy it's not even fair. Having a wife that bows out after the wedding is the most common and obvious complaint.

    It's SO obvious that a woman wrote this article,I don't think she has a clue.
     
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    To me, more than an unmotivated/unexciting Love-making Wife....would be a Wife who is a habitual whiner and complainer , for, you just cant make someone like that content and happy . Proverbs says its better for a Husband to occupy the corner of his roof than to have to listen to that...lol.... And I agree.