Before we even start to discuss this, I think we should get the usual accusations against anyone (a minority or not) who dares discuss any racial issues out of the way.
(1) President Obama, Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson (who else is there?) are all responsible for this racial divide in this country. It is all their fault.
(2) You are race baiting.
(3) Stop playing the race card.
(4) Stop playing the victim - which is directed to any minority who dares to discuss racial issues or discuss what happened to their people in this country.
(5) Get over it and stop living in the past - this is also directed to any minority who dares to discuss racial issues or discuss what happened to their ancestors in this country. It should be mentioned and noted that this accusation does not apply to white Americans who want to remember and commemorate 9-11, Pearl Harbor, any American war and veterans, the Confederacy, Southern pride, the Alamo or any other non-minority history or tragedy. It only applies to minorities in an attempt to shame and silence them.
And finally last but not least, my personal favorite, stop being such a sore loser. Hm... I wonder if "If you don't love America, you can leave it!" will come up here or black people should learn to show more respect toward the police or their culture is responsible or whatever other excuse has come up in these discussions. Anyway, did I miss any other accusation? Hopefully not. So, with all of these usual accusations said and out of the way, maybe we can go on and discuss this issue without any of them popping up.