I said this:
" Paul's answer to the jailer was to "believe and you WILL BE SAVED". Believing is an action. And that is what we must do to be saved.
But Calvinists disagree. They think that "faith is a gift" is an action that God causes in us. Nope. No evidence at all from Scripture."
The bible tells us faith is a gift.
And I agree. And I explained what that means.
Eph 2:8 “By grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God.”
The phrase "this is not your own doing" refers to salvation, not the action of believing.
I asked the question above and nobody responded.
Why would one person want to come to God and the other not come?
Is it their IQ?
Where they were born?
How persuading the preacher was?
Not sure my answer will satisfy, as I've answered this for Calvinists many times, but it's no different than why people choose any other different things.
What people believe about a variety of things varies. And people change their minds about a lot of things they believe.
My sense is that Calvinists believe that regeneration precedes believing and is necessary in order for one to believe. But that is really nothing other than being pre-programmed, like a robot, or puppet. I know that Calvinists bristle at that, but if God chooses who to regenerate in order for them to believe, then that's exactly what it is.
People believe what they are convinced is true. Even when such things may obviously not be true. And people change their minds.
So, why some believe and others don't cannot be due to IQ differences. Or where they were born. btw, that reminds me. Paul told the Mars Hill Athenians that God is the One who places all humans when and WHERE He does so that they will seek Him.
Acts 17:26,27 - 26 and He made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined their appointed times and the boundaries of their habitation, 27 that they would seek God, if perhaps they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one ofus;
I do think that persuasion can be a factor. When one is persuaded, they will believe. Even King Agrippa acknowledged that.