Willtor said:
I don't think it's necessarily lip service. And herein lies the limitation of an internet forum. I'd love to hang out with any of you. But the fact is, we're nowhere close to each other. Most of what you know about me is filtered through the medium of this forum. If I'm particularly clever, you won't see any part of me that I don't want to show you, and you may even see things that aren't so that I do want to show you. I might be an elaborate parody, and write theological essays as cover. Now, I'm not saying that I do any of this (though, as to covering things, I will say that the medium gives me opportunity to process what I say before I say it), but it is the inherent epistemological limit of an internet forum. I think if you knew me in real life, you wouldn't be concerned as to whether I was dedicated to Christ. You would probably come to some perspective on the matter, and you might be right or you might be mistaken, but this notion of quoting percentages to determine whether I am doing lip service to these statements would be out of the question.
First of all thanks for not seeing this as some sort of attack. Secondly, the lip service I'm referring to applies equally to all, no one has a corner on this market. Thirdly, I definitely agree with your assessment here, it is extremely difficult to get to know someone within such a limited contact experience. I'm a very intense probing person who, in a personal environment, can get to know someone intimately in a very short time. Not to boast, but if I knew you in person I would "know" you quite well and whatever questions I may have today, well they would have been sufficiently answered long ago. Yet the skills I have to make those assessments in person are practically inept within a forum environment such as this because of very reasons you mentioned. Yet, that doesn't mean that one can hide everything. It isn't difficult to ascertain who here has a hard time loving their neighbor and if a basic tenet of the faith such as that isn't being met, well it makes it quite easy to assess their walk.
Right now I have no reason whatsoever to be concerned about your dedication to Christ. From everything I've seen you appear to be one fine and upstanding man who loves the Lord and his neighbor. Yet, you could be a charlatan or hypocrite, I truly don't know. It's sad that on a forum such as this, the truth can be hidden quite easily. But, if I were a betting man I'd say you were the former.
Willtor said:
The question is not whether we are doing lip service, but whether we can afford to give each other the benefit of the doubt. As limiting as this medium may be, we could simply choose to take each other at face value and treat each other as brothers who happen to disagree on hermeneutics. Not that this disagreement is a matter to be taken lightly, but that we can accept that we are all sincere (and some of us are sincerely mistaken). In the context of debating the issues, some people act inappropriately, but they don't teach rhetoric in school, like they did in the middle ages, and it's a weakness we'll overcome.
On the surface this sounds rather simple and easy to do. Of course I should give people the benefit of the doubt and accept what they tell me at face value, especially from a brother. For the most part that is exactly what I do, at least from those who display a courteous and forgiving manner.
I have no doubt that most if not all TEs are very sincere considering their beliefs and certainly don't take them lightly. Some of those sincerely felt differences between Christians have little to no bearing on much of anything, then still others may appear as innocuous but have the potential to be quite deadly. It is our job to be discerning and careful as to how one approaches many of such topics. God's Word is very direct and piercing, it behooves us to understand that it can cut in two directions. Many things are not quite as simple as we tend to make them, and yet many others are. It is our job, with the guidance of the Holy Spirit, to cut back the hyperbole and extraneous information and get down into the marrow of the matter. Then, once it has been discovered to rest upon it and never be shaken from its foundations.
With regard to actions. I understand people acting inappropriately, it is something we all will do at one time or another. The difference being, as Christians we should, at some point, take responsibility for our actions and apologize and ask for forgiveness when we're wrong. Some of us are much better than others at doing that. As a matter of fact, some don't even allow themselves to be put into a position where apologizes are in order. Oh how I wish I could say I've arrived there.
The bottom line considering my initial response is still the same, we can all say whatever it is we choose to say, but in the end it matters very little. What matters is what we do, not what we say.