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HalupkiMonster
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^^Sorry, I wasn't sure how to phrase the title for this thread!!!
At the young adult retreat that my diocese holds for area Orthodox 16 - 22 year olds, the Fathers speak to us about marriage. What to look for in a partner, habits to avoid, the importance of marrying Orthodox, etc.
One thing that is never mentioned is what to do when one feels attracted to the same sex, and not to the opposite. Another is what to do if we feel we are transgender, or perhaps find ourselves in another of the "alternative" situations we see today.
I really wish priests would talk about this. I do not know much about transgenderism or anything like that, however dealing with SSA, I'm always a bit disappointed. Same sex attraction is something that many Christians are struggling with, and it would be nice if young people who are just starting their journeys could be catered to just a little. Those of us that know we won't get married, but don't necessarily feel the call to monasticism. The Church tells us to struggle to carry our cross, but the world tells us to accept and indulge. It's difficult, and if we could be thrown a bone once in a while, it would sure help a lot.
So, my question is this: why isn't homosexuality addressed with Orthodox youth? Is it not seen as an issue?
As someone who works with Christian youth at school, I have had many frustrated Christians come to me and explain that they are disappointed that their struggle is never dealt with, as they are under extreme pressure to conform to society's standards, possibly more so than those struggling with other sins.
At the young adult retreat that my diocese holds for area Orthodox 16 - 22 year olds, the Fathers speak to us about marriage. What to look for in a partner, habits to avoid, the importance of marrying Orthodox, etc.
One thing that is never mentioned is what to do when one feels attracted to the same sex, and not to the opposite. Another is what to do if we feel we are transgender, or perhaps find ourselves in another of the "alternative" situations we see today.
I really wish priests would talk about this. I do not know much about transgenderism or anything like that, however dealing with SSA, I'm always a bit disappointed. Same sex attraction is something that many Christians are struggling with, and it would be nice if young people who are just starting their journeys could be catered to just a little. Those of us that know we won't get married, but don't necessarily feel the call to monasticism. The Church tells us to struggle to carry our cross, but the world tells us to accept and indulge. It's difficult, and if we could be thrown a bone once in a while, it would sure help a lot.
So, my question is this: why isn't homosexuality addressed with Orthodox youth? Is it not seen as an issue?
As someone who works with Christian youth at school, I have had many frustrated Christians come to me and explain that they are disappointed that their struggle is never dealt with, as they are under extreme pressure to conform to society's standards, possibly more so than those struggling with other sins.