Stagnation

[dnth1991]

Hi there, I'm a 25 year old NEET (unemployed, not in school or training)

A while ago while I was taking classes I was forced to pull out which caused me to owe an enormous amount to my school before I could ever hope to return. Now in this down time I've been looking for part time work and anything I can find but I'm starting to wonder if it's been worth it. I'm a believer but unfortunately I have no clue as to what God's calling for my life actually IS let alone being ready to throw more money down a path I'm not even sure I want to go down to begin with. I think another component is even with all my spare time I'm not entirely sure where I should be devoting my time in the word since my church doesn't offer a whole lot of guidance for me on that part.

In all things I'm happy and grateful with my life knowing that I at least have opportunities to move forward in my life, and that my situation could be a lot worse. But at the same time I really want to escape this seemingly directionless path I currently see myself on.

Thanks for reading

 

[BelleC]

Hi and welcome to CF!

That sounds like a hard position to be in. My twenties felt like a difficult period too. The pressure to be an independent adult combined with trying to figure out who we are as people is just plain hard.

Don't stress about where to spend time in the word just make sure you are reading and taking time to listen to what God is saying to you. Maybe talk to your pastor and find out where you can pitch in and help out. Sometimes volunteering at something sparks an unexpected passion. If not it will still feel good to feel purposeful. Try your best to connect with other Christians who can strengthen and encourage you. You can also try a do it yourself retreat. I did that when I really wanted to hear from God. Basically, you cut off all distractions for a few days (like phone, tv, and internet) and spend time just reading the bible, praying, fast if possible, and waiting on God. Getting outside in nature helps. I wish you well and will pray you find the direction you are looking for!

 

[1watchman]

Remember to put the Lord Jesus FIRST in your life! I will pray for you. You might see my personal note at your profile ---CONVERSATIONS. Write me anytime.

 

[Johnnz]

be practical and sensible. God often expects us to use our brains and look at things very practically. Abilities,skills, interests and what is actually available are all f actors we must assess and make our choices.

John
NZ