Keep the pressure off, he needs to find it in his own time, wait for opportunities to talk or address things, but dont push it onto him or he may pull further away. Arrange a movie night at home. The less pressured more likely he will talk. What about his dad?
Ok, going a bit deep here, but if his dad is emotionally distant, its possible that how joe feels about God. Its quite common that our views of parents affect our views if God. Worth calmly and peacefully praying through. Think you are in for a bit of a journey with it. Prayer needs to be your best friend.
I'm just seeing this thread now and don't know if your son went to church that Sunday you were referring to, but you can't force him to do something he doesn't want to do.
Praying for wisdom and guidance for you in this whole situation and that God would 'talk' to your son in a way that is very clear to him.
Gillian
Locum, I understand about the pressure and his own time, and I do try to talk to him when I think it is OK, but it seems that he just doesn't want to talk, he gets angry.
Also, I understand about the distance part due to his dad being distant from all of this. I went through my own issues with my dad as a child, and still sometimes to this day wonder if my belief is just going to be all a joke on me. Now, I have talked to Joe about these thought processes, and he is full of wisdom from God with it. So, it shocks me when he has issues with God.
Gillian, Yes he did go to church, and we have changed churches and the pastor is fabulous, and teaches the bible as it should be taught. I think Joe might have been struggling a bit with leaving the other church since he was baptised there and re dedicated his life to God there.
Now he no longer says that he won't go to church, at leat so far. I have been praying for him. He has a spitefullness within him. He is late to work a lot when he is placed at this one school that he works at sometimes. He doesn't like the person that is the lead there and thinks that it is OK to be late if you don't like something.
He still has a lot of growing to do as a person, and to learn responsibilities in the right way, if that makes sense?
I admit, I have much to learn about aspergers.
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