Guys, I know the question has been asked many times about why do girls go for the jerks.
I am going to tell you, no matter what your not going to get the answer that you want. Instead of asking those questions, trust me I have asked many times myself, and to no avail. The answer to this on the guys side. Instead of asking that question, because even if you didn't mean to, your going to hurt girls that you care about with it. Why not just build the confidence of the girls around you. It all in my humble opinion comes down to self-confidence. So, instead of breaking them down with those questions and accept that it's going to happen. And build their confidence.
Believe me, I don't like that it happens, and women have told me many times that there should be more guys like me. I tell them, if we weren't push to the side more then there would be. I have a hard time hearing this, I want very badly to meet the girl God wants me to marry. Gosh I would love to meet her today if I could. Simple fact no matter what I do is going to change my past. I feel the emotional pain from it everyday. I try to fake being happy, most of the time, I'm not. I hate waking up to the very real fear that I will be single my whole life. I have fallen off point.
The point is, don't worry why girls go after jerks. Instead just help build their confidence.
I am going to tell you, no matter what your not going to get the answer that you want. Instead of asking those questions, trust me I have asked many times myself, and to no avail. The answer to this on the guys side. Instead of asking that question, because even if you didn't mean to, your going to hurt girls that you care about with it. Why not just build the confidence of the girls around you. It all in my humble opinion comes down to self-confidence. So, instead of breaking them down with those questions and accept that it's going to happen. And build their confidence.
Believe me, I don't like that it happens, and women have told me many times that there should be more guys like me. I tell them, if we weren't push to the side more then there would be. I have a hard time hearing this, I want very badly to meet the girl God wants me to marry. Gosh I would love to meet her today if I could. Simple fact no matter what I do is going to change my past. I feel the emotional pain from it everyday. I try to fake being happy, most of the time, I'm not. I hate waking up to the very real fear that I will be single my whole life. I have fallen off point.
The point is, don't worry why girls go after jerks. Instead just help build their confidence.