At any rate I would like to ask a question from way back in the thread that was, perhaps justifiably, ignored. What is the prevailing opinion among physicists about the make up of the singularity itself and can it be likened to an actual hole in spacetime? Or if there isn't one prevailing opinion what do you suspect is happening?
Please specify which type of singularity you're talking about. If you're referring to gravitational singularities, black holes, the idea that they are "holes" is not all that accurate in terms of prevailing theory. the word "hole" refers to the massive gravitational forces at work, preventing almost everything from escaping the event horizon -- in effect, once you get that close, you're doomed, as you're about to have all your constituent atoms ripped apart by tidal forces from the singularity.
what does matter look like inside the hole? no way to know directly, except through mathematical modeling and guesses, as the matter inside effectively reaches infinite density (in the case of a non-rotating hole, all the matter is compressed to a point; in the case of a kerr hole, you're looking at a ring with zero thickness and finite diameter), and so your atoms would be added to that.
Charged or rotating holes create all sorts of theoretical fun stuff, including the possibility of wormholes (very unstable) as well as causality violations. This kind of theory is still in very active development.
If you're asking what the properties of the matter in the singularity are, there basically aren't any intrinsic to the matter itself; it is no longer observable. The only things we can tell are mass, charge, and angular momentum.
The gravitation is the big deal in terms of interaction with the outside universe. It's a region of infinite spacetime curvature, zero volume, effectively infinite mass, which taken in terms of GR means zero time once you hit the Schwartzchild radius. Sounds real wacky -- but supported by the data that we have, both theoretical and observational.
And no, we're not going to be scooping matter out of a black hole anytime soon. That's a good way to add your own atoms to it
One thing that is extremely commonly accepted, is that all (or nearly all) galaxies contain a supermassive black hole at the center, including ours. Current best measurements of it is around 4.3 solar masses, in a radius less than .002 lightyears across. Wikipedia has some good introductory articles that review black hole physics alright, with links to the source material.