- Feb 5, 2002
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Took my mother in law out of town to spend time with my SIL's in-laws as this was her first thanksgiving without her husband. Everything was fine. We left her there with my sister in-law to spend the night and they will drive her back home tomorrow to prepare for Saturday when we will celebrate again and put her tree up. The brother in law and his family which I have spoke of before where we have helped them over and over and tried to be good to them yet turned against me in particular and slandered me to anyone who would listen. He is older than my husband has grown kids etc. since then, he has turned everyone including his daughters and son against me. So we come home tonight and my sister in law texts me but I was driving so I did not check it till getting home. I see in the text she is asking that I call her. I'm thinking my mother in law wants me to do something so I call her back and find that my brother in law has suffered another heart attack. His second. He needs more stints and was transferred to put them in. The prognosis is good but just as when his daughter had a baby and we got no call the same happened in this instance. In the past, I was the first one called. So again my husband and I hear this from someone else. Nothing has improved. They are still acting insane and lying but this has certainly put a damper on things. You know, if nobody calls on these important events then it is just a given they do not want you in their lives. So again, like the last holidays before my FIL died it is sad. Please pray for my bil's health and a resolution to all this. With me being the target of a their motives and excuse for everything else they fail to do, my husband feels he is between a rock and a hard place. And I just suck because I'm the reason for everything according to them. I'm tired of carrying this burden. I know I am rambling but anyone that has read my past posts concerning this situation will get the gist of it. Prayers appreciated.
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