I've debated about whether or not I should tell this anyone, so I thought I'd start with you guys. Its kind of personal, but .....well you know how they say its easier to tell a stranger your darkest secrets? That's kinda what I'm getting at here.
Well okay, here goes.
I have trouble befriending anyone. Its not because I'm hateful, its not because i'm ugly (trust me I'm hot ), its not because I'm creepy. Its because I hate, or rather tense up, when people get close to me at all.
I know this is something people say a lot, but here me out on this one. Lately, I've found myself distancing myself from everyone. The only two people I've kept in contact with from high school are almost like strangers to me now. I talk to them, but it feels really forced. My brother and I get along still, but I feel like we live on two different planets now. I feel like I don't belong in my own body.
Maybe it has something to do with my other topic I posted recently. Basically, I talked about how my faith was shot. I've been in a spiritual free fall so to speak, and its messed up everything in my life. The things that I was grounded in, my piece of mind was completely snatched out from under me. I don't really talk to people anymore because I'm too worried about sorting out my beliefs, or where i'm going in life, etc. I find most people boring now, which I hate. I'm not trying to sound snobbish, I just really have a hard time connecting with anyone. I feel like I've lost my ability to relate to anything or anyone. Do I make sense? =\
Couple that with the fact that I've never really had any close relationships (aside from one friend who is unstable at best), and I just feel like my life could go to pot real quick. Can anyone relate here? I know one person PM'd me, and I appreciate that because I know I'm not completely alone here with my state of confusion, but its something I'm having to deal with. I'm not gonna complain, I just want to know how to get out of this hole that I've dug for myself. Life seems pretty pointless to me right now, though I know better than that.
Blah, I'm just ranting now. Surely someone can decipher all this crap out that I've typed.
Well okay, here goes.
I have trouble befriending anyone. Its not because I'm hateful, its not because i'm ugly (trust me I'm hot ), its not because I'm creepy. Its because I hate, or rather tense up, when people get close to me at all.
I know this is something people say a lot, but here me out on this one. Lately, I've found myself distancing myself from everyone. The only two people I've kept in contact with from high school are almost like strangers to me now. I talk to them, but it feels really forced. My brother and I get along still, but I feel like we live on two different planets now. I feel like I don't belong in my own body.
Maybe it has something to do with my other topic I posted recently. Basically, I talked about how my faith was shot. I've been in a spiritual free fall so to speak, and its messed up everything in my life. The things that I was grounded in, my piece of mind was completely snatched out from under me. I don't really talk to people anymore because I'm too worried about sorting out my beliefs, or where i'm going in life, etc. I find most people boring now, which I hate. I'm not trying to sound snobbish, I just really have a hard time connecting with anyone. I feel like I've lost my ability to relate to anything or anyone. Do I make sense? =\
Couple that with the fact that I've never really had any close relationships (aside from one friend who is unstable at best), and I just feel like my life could go to pot real quick. Can anyone relate here? I know one person PM'd me, and I appreciate that because I know I'm not completely alone here with my state of confusion, but its something I'm having to deal with. I'm not gonna complain, I just want to know how to get out of this hole that I've dug for myself. Life seems pretty pointless to me right now, though I know better than that.
Blah, I'm just ranting now. Surely someone can decipher all this crap out that I've typed.