A2597
A Peculiar Person
- Nov 9, 2005
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I could never be with somebody who didn't believe in pre-marital kissing. What are we, afraid of cooties, or what? The bible even says, "Greet one another with holy KISS"! People go a little too far with their witch-hunts and sin-finding.
I'm not saying that saving a kiss for marriage is for everyone, but it was and is for me and my fiance. When I first heard about it I thought it was nuts, but it did kinda appeal to the romantic in me. A little later on I realized that yes, that is a very good thing, and made the decision that my next kiss would be on my wedding day. That was five years ago, I met the woman who is now my Fiance last year, and when I told HER that, she thought it was nuts. Then not so nuts. And now is even more adamant about it than I am!
So yea, it has my vote, kissing starts things that you really don't need to be starting before marriage.
That said, you most certainly DO need to discuss those things, and make certain that you are on the same page. Too many stories of honeymoon surprises of "Wait, you honestly don't care for sex?!?" to ignore the topic. Be careful with the conversation, but still have it!
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