Hi, Doc
I'm Bill . . . good to meet you, God bless you
Ok, so there is the basic point of not thinking we are more than God, to judge Him, and we are not smarter than He is.
So, I have simply accepted how I discover that the Bible says there is the lake of fire which burns with fire and brimstone (Revelation 19:20, 20:10, 21:8) and Satan and his are going there (Matthew 25:41). Also, Jesus is very clear how a number of people can act outwardly religious and righteous and can act nice but deeply are evil and ruined people. So, Jesus says,
"'Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.'" (John 7:24)
So, yes Jesus does say to judge; so I am not going to give you that line that you aren't God and so who are you to be the judge of if those people really are nice? But if you are going to judge them, in God's way, you need to evaluate deeper than how they show and tell themselves to be.
And you might consider how certain religious people have been able to fool themselves into thinking a predator was a pastor of Jesus. We humans all can fool our own selves, like this. Evil people can put on the act and talk the talk that we are looking for. You have likely experienced how a movie actor can get you to experience that he or she is some person who that actor is not, at all. A character can be a hero, while the actor is immoral and an addict and maybe a murderer or a serial divorcer. Or, a nice person can have you experiencing him or her to be a character who is the world's worst enemy, if that person has some acting ability.
So, you don't know who is really nice, only by their acting.
Also, Jesus has warned us to not trust people who claim to be so great that they don't need God and Jesus. This is very conceited of a person, that he or she feels and shows that he or she is so nice that he or she does not need how Jesus died on the cross for all people. And when someone gets people to think they can be nice so they don't need salvation, this is helping people to miss out on how they could be sharing with God in His own love (1 Corinthians 6:17, Romans 5:5). And only God's love can deeply cure us so we are safe in our character against how cruel emotions and feelings would torture and control us (Philippians 4:6-7, 2 Timothy 1:7). So, when ones act like they are good enough without Jesus, their example can be helping people to be self-dependent so they do not have God's strength against all the different kinds of emotional torment which people suffer (2 Corinthians 3:5).
So, if people are making a big show of not needing God because they are even too good for Him, this can be very cruel, helping people to stay weak so they can give in to lusts and boredom and loneliness and fear and worry and unforgiveness and hurts and depression and other torment. So, they are not being nice, at all, by misleading people, like this.
Only God's grace through Jesus can make us deeply sound people (2 Corinthians 12:7-10), in real love which is not weak enough to let us suffer in personality disorder and torments >
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love." (1 John 4:18)
People's personality torments are because of fears, I would say I have noticed. And I have noticed how "nice" people without Jesus can be slaves of worry which is a pathological liar and very abusive. Yet, people keep believing and even trusting their worry, while they would never keep trusting some human who lied to them and abused them.
And Jesus heals us so we don't keep suffering about things of the past > this is a basic guarantee of salvation >
"'Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.'" (Matthew 11:28-30)
So, if we are not helping people to trust in Jesus and get His so sweet and kind rest for our souls, we are not nice, at all!! We are being very cruel. And hell is the flaming sewer for Satan and his cruelty and nasty stuff. So, we need to become vessels of God's lovingkindness and rest and caring for others by helping them to be with God in His own love. We need to not be sewer buckets of cruel and nasty things like worry and bitterness and lusts and unforgiveness which are going to the flaming sewer. Hell is good for keeping such nasty filth away from ones who trust in Jesus; so hell is good news, not a threat. Fire can control Satan and evil people; nothing can make Satan and conceited people be reasonable; so fire is needed to control them, plus keep their nasty filth away from us, when it is time to do this.
I must make a clarification, though. God does use un-Christian people to do good. People in authority, for one example, are used by God to keep the lid on evil in this world . . . even while the secular authority people themselves might not be nice and honest in how they do things > at least, what they do can be used by God to resist evil people, to at least slow them down > Romans 13:1-5.
And there are "nice" people who might help others, somehow. But only the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross is good enough to get us salvation. Only Jesus God's Son is pleasing enough (Matthew 17:5) to satisfy our Father to forgive us and reconcile with us (1 John 2:2).