We need to take a break. I've been finding my joy in you instead of in Christ.
That's what she said 2+ weeks ago.
She was looking to me to fulfill her in every way. I don't think it was mutual. She's easily the 'most important part of my life,' I would do anything for her, but I wasn't expecting her to be my only source of joy, etc.
Didn't tell me this or hint at it until 'moment-of.'
She has spent the past 3+ weeks, maybe more, doing a lot of praying and reading the Bible. All under extremely 'modern' evangelical pretenses. The type of Christianity that believes
It seems that our differing beliefs in touchy details about Christianity is going to end our 1-year-of-dating relationship.
Help? Advice? Please.. Probably only have a few weeks to influence this in a positive way before she really 'exits.'
That's what she said 2+ weeks ago.
She was looking to me to fulfill her in every way. I don't think it was mutual. She's easily the 'most important part of my life,' I would do anything for her, but I wasn't expecting her to be my only source of joy, etc.
Didn't tell me this or hint at it until 'moment-of.'
She has spent the past 3+ weeks, maybe more, doing a lot of praying and reading the Bible. All under extremely 'modern' evangelical pretenses. The type of Christianity that believes
- God has an exact plan for us
- That we have to try really hard to seek him and then everything will be literally clear
- Sort of seems to believe you can "achieve" something
- Doesn't seem to believe that God usually works subtly
- Just pray and listen, no need for any theology or critical thinking
It seems that our differing beliefs in touchy details about Christianity is going to end our 1-year-of-dating relationship.
Help? Advice? Please.. Probably only have a few weeks to influence this in a positive way before she really 'exits.'