Hi,
Don't know if anyone is still following this thread or not, but I thought I would post something in case anyone is. My name is Steve and I am the founder and President of Family Watchdog. I wanted to let people know that we are now in the following states: AL, AZ, CA, NM, TX, GA, FL, VA, WV, NY, OH, KY, TN, IN, MI, IL, MO and KS. We'll be in a total of 42 states by mid-October.
I've read the posts here and on other forums and blogs, and there are a couple things I'd like to say. I've read a lot about forgiveness, the scarlet letter, underage or jilted lovers, etc. As a Christian, I did a lot of research before I developed this site, because the last thing I wanted was to brand people. I talked with several pastors, and the overwhelming majority believed that what I did was a good thing.
While there are instances of 18 year olds and 15 year olds having consentual sex, they are extremely few and far between. Same thing with jilted lovers. The vast majority (98.5+%) of the people on these registries are sick, dangerous, sociopaths who are extremely manipulative and think that their actions are perfectly legitimate.
80 - 90% of all sexual assaults are perpetrated against people that the attacker knows. 95% of children that are molested knew and trusted their molester. 52% of child molesters that are incarcerated and released will be rearrested. Many more will reoffend and never be caught. The average first-time offender will molest 120 children before being caught. and 20% of girls and 17% of boys will be molested before their 18th birthday.
As for the scarlet letter, the offender put that on when they were caught. A sex conviction will follow that person forever, whether Family Watchdog exists or not.
And forgiveness; certainly we should forgive these people. You might even have one that is a friend. I do. But I would never leave my 12 year old alone with him, not for a minute. It is not about forgivemenss, it is about protection. Being a Christian does not mean that you must present yourself or your loved ones as a sacrifice to thugs.
Just thought I'd share some info about why we're here.
In Him,
Steve