Thunder Peel
You don't eat a peacock until it's cooked.
Edited: Nevermind, I get where you're coming from now.
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No offense but that's some pretty lousy advice. Like Macfall already stated, viewing people as prizes and dating as merely a game devalues people and relationships into nothing more than cheap flings. I'm sick and tired of watching my fellow brothers and sisters treat each others' hearts as if they're disposable; just toss someone away when you're done and move on without even considering how the other person may feel. I've had it happen to me and I've seen it happen to friends and people I care about. It's disgusting and the people who view it as something just done for "fun" are usually the ones doing the damage.
I'm not saying you're necessarily suggesting that but it wouldn't be hard for someone to develop that mindset if they see dating as just a game. There's nothing wrong with someone being humble and being picky in their selection. God works in everyone differently.
I didn't like that community at all. They are / were dark and jaded people. The biggest lesson I was trying to teach is that by stating that the women you are attracted to view you as second class, you are constructing a self fulfilling prophecy of negativity before you even start.
Ever feel like a second class person because you're single?
The only time I've felt like a second-class citizen for being single is when people who generally ignored me suddenly wanted me to be involved in everything they did as soon as I had a girlfriend, and just as quickly lost interest in me as soon as we broke up. I didn't actually take it personally - people are people and we're all a bit childish - but it was interesting to see that perspective: "Oh, you're part of the dating club now! Welcome aboard! Come hang out with us!"