My boyfriend has been told, and thinks himself, that he is schizotypal. He grew up in a pentecostal church, and has been forth and back a bit in his faith. For the last two years he's been more off, but sinse new year he's been struggling more and more with the big questions, and during easter he decided to give it a try again. He went all in - we were engaged and had been living together for half a year, and now he wanted to follow the bible "properly", so living together or have sex before marriage was no longer an option. I looked at him during this time and saw it as both scary and beautiful - I can myself associate with going to the extremes. He would often say he didn't want to be like those "sleepy christians" that didn't really follow Jesus the way Jesus asked us to do - which is, to be hones, pretty extreme. He was open to leaving everything to follow Jesus, if that was what would be needed for him to connect with him/God. Then one day I passed some Jehovas Witnesses, and grabbed a booklet from them. We started to check out their teachings a bit, and it didn't take long before one day my boyfriend called me and told me to stop reading or listening to anything having to do with JW, as he had just felt like he was about to go into a psychosis, and he felt like the teachings of JW was what had brought him there.. He told me he got a feeling of nothing else being important, that he was about to be totally emerged in the teachings and that it felt like he would not be able to talk to anyone about anything else but Jesus. And it scared the [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] out of him! He said either it was something very wrong with JW and how they presented the teachings, or it was the real deal - he could not figure which one..
One part of me is thinking that this is not a healthy way of being a christian, but another part of me is thinking that this might be the right way.. going all in, offering your life completely.. but it does feel kind of like madness at the same time..
Now he has been scared of reading the bible and going to sermons, but he's trying, and taking it slowly - reading a bit, listening to some podcasts etc.. But he's struggling a lot mentally, I get the impression it's a conflict at every quiet moment, and it's driving him crazy...like the devil and God are having a battle in his head, and he can't figure out who is who and what is real and who he is and what to believe in all of it.
It would be helpful to talk to someone who's been dealing with something like this,to hear what you did and how you related to it all..
He has not been to a doctor about this yet (he was told by his previous doctor but didn't do anything about it then, a few years ago) - he's thinking about medication, but of course also is scared of it in case it will give him sideeffects or that they will make him even worse.. I am no fan of using chemicals myself, but I don't want to see my love lose his mind either..
Being new in all this, as I accepted Jesus just this easter, I'm a bit scared about this as well.. this was not how I thought it would be.. Although I know this is a battle that was inavoidable for him as he grew up in a christian home.. I am thinking it might be the devil fighting for him, but sometimes I'm wondering if christianity, or any other path, would be "dangerous" for someone schizofrenic or schizotype, as it has the potential to really stretch our minds to it's limits..if you get what I mean..
Grateful for any replies that could give some insight or help on this subject!
Blessings.
One part of me is thinking that this is not a healthy way of being a christian, but another part of me is thinking that this might be the right way.. going all in, offering your life completely.. but it does feel kind of like madness at the same time..
Now he has been scared of reading the bible and going to sermons, but he's trying, and taking it slowly - reading a bit, listening to some podcasts etc.. But he's struggling a lot mentally, I get the impression it's a conflict at every quiet moment, and it's driving him crazy...like the devil and God are having a battle in his head, and he can't figure out who is who and what is real and who he is and what to believe in all of it.
It would be helpful to talk to someone who's been dealing with something like this,to hear what you did and how you related to it all..
He has not been to a doctor about this yet (he was told by his previous doctor but didn't do anything about it then, a few years ago) - he's thinking about medication, but of course also is scared of it in case it will give him sideeffects or that they will make him even worse.. I am no fan of using chemicals myself, but I don't want to see my love lose his mind either..
Being new in all this, as I accepted Jesus just this easter, I'm a bit scared about this as well.. this was not how I thought it would be.. Although I know this is a battle that was inavoidable for him as he grew up in a christian home.. I am thinking it might be the devil fighting for him, but sometimes I'm wondering if christianity, or any other path, would be "dangerous" for someone schizofrenic or schizotype, as it has the potential to really stretch our minds to it's limits..if you get what I mean..
Grateful for any replies that could give some insight or help on this subject!
Blessings.