- Jun 14, 2004
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This probably would best go in parenting, but nobody is over there...
Our daughter is starting her junior year of high school, so she'll be headed off to college in 2 years. She attends a Christian school now which is reasonable size, about 75 kids in each grade. She will swim in college, so the whole selection process is already starting. She has done a great job of compiling a list of colleges that fit her desired 4 state area, have the majors she is interested in, are academically strong enough, and which have swimming times that fit with where she expects to be able to contribute. That gives her a list of 21 schools. Most of them are secular, and the few Christian colleges are among the most expensive of the group. Swimming fit will be a major priority for her anyway, so whether a school is Christian or not is a factor pretty far down the priority list. So, I realize it is likely she will end up at a secular college.
I am wondering if others can offer tips we may not have thought of to prepare her to move from a Christian high school to a secular college. She has not been particularly sheltered - most of her non school time is spent with her year round swim team or working, which means many of her friends are not from the Christian "bubble". She is mature and we have never been helicopter parents. She recently flew alone from a swim meet in Indianapolis to Vancouver to join the rest of us for a vacation (we live in North Carolina). So we're not stressed about her having been sheltered and suddenly getting thrown out into the world. We know college teaching will challenge some of the teachings from church and high school, and that is OK. What I am curious about is if there are any things that might not be intuitively obvious that some of you could share that would help us prepare her.
Our daughter is starting her junior year of high school, so she'll be headed off to college in 2 years. She attends a Christian school now which is reasonable size, about 75 kids in each grade. She will swim in college, so the whole selection process is already starting. She has done a great job of compiling a list of colleges that fit her desired 4 state area, have the majors she is interested in, are academically strong enough, and which have swimming times that fit with where she expects to be able to contribute. That gives her a list of 21 schools. Most of them are secular, and the few Christian colleges are among the most expensive of the group. Swimming fit will be a major priority for her anyway, so whether a school is Christian or not is a factor pretty far down the priority list. So, I realize it is likely she will end up at a secular college.
I am wondering if others can offer tips we may not have thought of to prepare her to move from a Christian high school to a secular college. She has not been particularly sheltered - most of her non school time is spent with her year round swim team or working, which means many of her friends are not from the Christian "bubble". She is mature and we have never been helicopter parents. She recently flew alone from a swim meet in Indianapolis to Vancouver to join the rest of us for a vacation (we live in North Carolina). So we're not stressed about her having been sheltered and suddenly getting thrown out into the world. We know college teaching will challenge some of the teachings from church and high school, and that is OK. What I am curious about is if there are any things that might not be intuitively obvious that some of you could share that would help us prepare her.