stormdancer0
Do not be so open-minded that your brain falls out
We tell the difference by our love. Jesus said "They will know you are My followers in this: that you love one another." Not by your dress, by your love. I do not dress provocatively, any dresses or skirts I wear are at least knee length; as are any shorts (which I generally do not wear in public); yet I, too, have been stopped and asked if I were a Christian. One person even asked if I were a minister. It was not my dress, but the love I showed others that made the difference. Plus, I have seen several people dressed the way your church advocates, but were rude, obnoxious, and demanding. If you feel convicted, by all means, wear what you feel comfortable in. In all my years following God, I have never felt convicted by the Holy Spirit that I should not wear pants or cut my hair.Mmm yes the time that this scripture was written.. that's what a lot of people say. Times change, but what God meant doesn't. How our we supposed to tell the difference between God's people and the world? If we all look the same? People can tell I am different by the way I am dressed and present my self. You don't see people walk up to a young lady that is wearing pants, make-up, jewelery, short hair(not that there is anything wrong with it unless a woman came to God like that and therefore doesn't cut it afterwards), a bad attitude and a fowl mouth and ask her "Are you Pentecostal?" No you don't. At least I haven't nor heard of it. But I have people come up to me and ask me all the time.
Why do you say it refers to anything sharp, when it says specifically "razor." Why be so specific when "Do not cut your hair" would be just as quick to say, and much clearer if that's what Paul meant.A razor referring to anything sharp. Not just an actual razor. Yes you can cut your hair and it still be long, but the point isn't just having long hair. It's to obey the scriptures by not cutting your hair period. I know plenty of girls who have never cut their hair but yet it is not long, due to their hair not growing fast or similar situations.
When women were shamed in that time, they were required to shave their heads as a symbol of their shame. It took a couple of years to grow the hair back to an acceptable length, so she had to live with her shame for that long. This is the basis for the admonition "Do not let a razor touch your head."
How is "be careful" and excuse? That makes no sense. If I tell you to "be careful of traffic," am I then making an excuse? No, I am advocating caution. I do the same with TV.Ahh but there is. "I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me." Psalms 101:3
People make up all sorts of excuses for that one. Like you did, "we should be very careful.... of what we watch". Yes we should, but why risk the chance you being tempted to watch the ungodly things on tv? Such as adultery, stealing, lying, fornication, fowl mouths, ungodly references(dirty talk), gossip, presentation(the way the look may tempt us to change ourselves), and all that. Almost every show has at least one of those things.
The television in itself is neither evil nor good. It is what you watch on it that can be wicked. Do you listen to the radio? Tapes? Read books? There is much evil on these things as well. If you do not watch TV, then how do you know that "almost every show has" these things? That's like the people who've never read the Bible claiming it is full of contradictions. They say that because that's what they've been taught, and that's what they want to believe. There are many good, Christian shows on TV.
Though, I guess if someone is weak in their faith and cannot make themselves turn the channel if something inappropriate comes on, perhaps they SHOULD refrain from watching it altogether.
You have just as much control with the TV. You can change the channel, you can turn it off, or you can put in a good movie. I agree about the soap operas. I never did like those things. But I love shows that show you how to make quilts, or paint, or grow veggies. I see no harm in those. And if you think you have so much control over where the computer takes you, type in "whitehouse.com" accidentally sometime instead of "whitehouse.gov" A small mistake in your typing can bring up stuff that would turn your stomach. Much like flipping through channels can do. But most of the channels that have such things on it have been blocked on our tv, so there is less chance that we or our kids will see something inappropriate.Sure we all sin, we aren't perfect, we make mistakes, but some shows such as soap operas, make it seem like it's ok, and perfectly natural. Actually same thing goes for computers. We are allowed to have them, but we should be careful what websites we go under. But i believe computers are not as bad, since you have to type in where you want to go. You have control of what websites you go under, unlike tv, whatever these directors throw out there, is there to watch.
In a few cases, make up represented ungodly women. But no where does it say in scripture, "Do not wear makeup." I see little difference in a little makeup and ,say, some hairspray. Both are there to make you look the way you want to look. Or conditioner on your hair. It all is there to artificially change how your hair or face looks, to make you look better.You don't think make-up representing ungodly things, and evil things, makes it a ban? I'm sorry you feel that way.. But make up entices no matter how little you put on. It a facade. That's what it is, sort of a lie. No, not sort of. It is a lie.
I do not think it defiles a barn to add a new coat of paint. I don't think God cares if we put on a little lip gloss. I personally don't wear makeup often at all.(Except when I was a clown. That's a whole 'nother story!) I just always figured, if you don't like how I look, then you can look some other direction.
Of course not. Jesus said, "If you love Me, keep my commandments." The commandments He gave us are "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind, body and spirit" AND "Love your neighbor as yourself." He added that all the law were contained in those two commandments. I try to keep these two commandments. I do not believe that we are restricted by the Jewish rules of living, or else we would still be stoning people who work on Saturdays. All of the 10 Commandments are included in the two that Jesus gave us.So we are just to run around without any rules at all? And do whatever we please? No. the government has rules, Jobs have rules, Stores have rules, everything has rules. There needs to be boundaries. And the rules that we have aren't man made, they're the rules god set for us in the bible. We merely follow them. Sure God didn't say exactly in the bible, Thou shalt not watch television, because it wasn't invented back then. We have to adapt to the technology and new things that are coming out to what god means. There is scripture for everything, we don't just make up rules because we feel like it.
No, He denounced them because they were so wrapped up in rules that they paid no attention and did not care about others. They put rules above love. They preached tithing, practiced it, but condemned others who could not afford to do the same, instead of offering to help out those less fortunate. They showed no love - that was why they were denounced.Jesus didn't denounce them for rules, he called them hypocrites. Cuz that's what they were. They didn't practice what they preached.
I was the same way. I never believed in woman pastors. But when God called me to do what I'm doing, it was unmistakeable. The Spirit has also let me know that many men have been called, but have rejected the calling. So God is looking for anyone - male or female - who will step up and FAITHFULLY, HUMBLY lead His people. I do not think I would ever be comfortable as a head pastor. I do believe that a man should be head over the church. But if men are called and prefer the world, then women have to step up into that gap. We have a gentleman in our church who is very resentful that I am a pastor because I am a woman. But I offered to step aside and let him step up, and he refused. 90% of what I do is visit the sick, and pray for those in need. That tends to be more of a female thing to do, but if God calls me to lead a church, I will do so.No you probably wouldn't sit well. We don't believe that woman should hold that authority of a pastor. A pastor's wife, sure, but not a pastor. I am a girl myself, and I don't believe any woman should be given that position.
So it's a sin to braid your hair? or wear pearls? How much are you allowed to spend, and it still not be "costly array?"Yes there's another thing people make excuses for. "God says he loves you for the inside, not the outside. So it shouldn't matter how we look" Yes that's correct in some ways. God doesn't care what race we are, what color eyes, hair, and skin we have. whether we have a skin disease or anything.
We do not turn away visitors or even frequent visitors just because the way they are dressed. I never implied that. We welcome them with open arms, we love them just as we should, just as god loves them. But if one were to become a member and want to follow the ways of god, we wouldn't encourage them to look the same. we wouldn't condemn them, just merely show them the scriptures.
And god does look on outward holiness. He wants us to be modest and appropriate, not just inwardly wise, but also on the outward. If we are holy inside, should it not should on the outside of us? I read a website and this person makes a good argument, he says this.
"Many people will say, "Well, God looks on the heart. God doesn't care what you look like on the outside. God just looks on the heart." That is true. God does look on the heart, but man cannot see the heart. Man can only see the outer. Not only that, the outer appearance is usually a pretty good indicator of what is in a person's heart. Although it is possible to look right on the outside and be wrong on the inside, it is well nigh impossible to look right on the outside and be right on the inside. What is on the outside comes from the inside. That is why Jesus said, "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh"
And I couldn't have said it better myself.
"In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works." 1 Timothy 2:10 KJV
What I wear is modest. A woman should not put her self-worth in things such as makeup, jewelry, or rich clothing. She should be modest, and take her self-image from the good works she does, not what she looks like. This is how I understand this verse.
So, this is Peter's preference. He said, "I want women" to dress a certain way."And I want women to be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes. For women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do." NLT
I agree 100%. The thing is, we are taught that the church building is just that, a building. The church is not a building, it is a group of believers. We are not just believers at church, but at home, in the workplace, and everywhere else. When I say we discourage inappropriate clothing in our services, I misspoke. We discourage inappropriate clothing for our congregation. We are the church, no matter where we are. Even in running errands, we represent God. This is something we have only recently (as in the past year or so) begun emphasizing - that you cannot be a Christian on Sunday and live like the world the rest of the week. This has been the central focus of all my teachings.Another words, dress modest, not wear immodest things that draw attention. So if you don't encourage inappropriate clothing or makeup in your service, does that mean you allow it to happen outside of your church? doesn't make sense. How are people to know the difference from the people in your church, your religion, than from the people of the world?(meaning the people who do not follow god) Seems like they're just playing the part. I don't dress and act one way at church, then dress and act differently outside of my church, I am the same. Just because my pastor isn't watching me, nor the people of my church, doesn't mean I do what I want. God is still watching me, I need to be an example for him.
This is one of my favorite quotes. But wearing ultraconservative clothing doesn't make you a Christian, either. It is how you love, how you treat others, that makes you a Christian. That's what Christ said.Standing in a garage doesn't make you a car, anymore than going to church makes you a christian.
I would fear that dressing the way you advocate would actually repel people from getting to know me. If people won't get close enough to you to experience God's love, how can you bring souls to Him?
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