I am not trying to you just can't follow an analogy very well or don;t understand that analogies are just that - analogies.
According to 1 John (you know that entire book you keep running away from or twisting to escape what it says) if the light comes form a real relationship with Christ it will never go out. You keep looking at people who claimed to have been Christians to determine your beliefs - I will continue to look at all scriptures together
It is understood that John is writing to the Church in 1 John, he is not writing to unbelievers. (
My little children, 1 Jn 2:1).
He warns them about
deceiving themselves (1 Jn 1:8)
He warns them about
making God a liar (1 Jn 1:9)
If any many sin, we have an advocate with he Father (1 Jn 2:1). Sinning does not make one lost or apostate.
1Jn 2:4 He that saith, I know him,
and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.
Was the truth at one time in this person? You may say no, but 1 Jn 1:8-9 is an admonition to John's "children" to not be deceived.
1Jn 2:5 But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected:
hereby know we that we are in him.
The emphasis is on "keeping his word". This is not considered a work of self-righteousness.
1Jn 2:6 He that saith he abideth in him
ought himself also so to walk, even as he walked.
This person may have abided in the Lord at one time and stopped. Abiding is a choice, is it not?
1Jn 2:9 He that saith he is in the light,
and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now.
He that used to love his brother and now hateth him, is also making a choice, is he not? Maybe, that is why Paul is cautioning against a "root of bitterness" and Jesus says in Matthew 24 "because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold."
Heb_12:15 Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any
root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;
1Jn 2:11 "But he that hateth his brother
is in darkness..."
John cautions against loving the world, because it will crowd out the love of God in your life.
1Jn 2:15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world.
If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
Demas forsook Paul, having loved this present world. (Of course, I understand that you think Demas was never saved).
2Ti_4:10 For Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world, and is departed unto Thessalonica; Crescens to Galatia, Titus unto Dalmatia.
1Jn 2:24
Let that therefore abide in you, which ye have heard from the beginning. If that which ye have heard from the beginning shall remain in you, ye also shall continue in the Son, and in the Father.
What is John talking about, "Let that therefore abide in you". What abides in us is Jesus Christ, the Truth. Truth is not a commodity but a Person. "Abide in Me and I in You", (John 15).
"If that which ye have heard from the beginning shall remain in you, ye also shall continue in the Son and in the Father"
The implication is that if you do not let that which ye have heard from the beginning remain in you, ye shall NOT continue in the Son and in the Father.
There you go, you wanted 1 John, should I continue? Why do we twist God's word and not take it for what it says?
John says that it is possible for us to be seduced.
1Jn 2:26 These things have I written unto you
concerning them that seduce you.
1Jn 2:28
And now, little children, abide in him; that, when he shall appear, we may have confidence, and not be ashamed before him at his coming.
"abide in Him". Why do we have to be told this if what you say is true. "if the light comes form a real relationship with Christ it will never go out." Possibly, because lights can be snuffed out?
Do you take exception at the Apostles for all their warnings to the Church?