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I've mentioned before how this situation often happens. I give Hubby a piece of information, or bring something to his attention, which he acknowledges. Then a few minutes later, he'll ask me a question that makes it obvious he didn't hear a word I said. If I'm telling him about a problem that needs attention, again he'll acknowledge it, but then a few days might pass and it hasn't been addressed yet. So I bring it up again, and he'll swear up and down this is the first he's hearing about it.
Last evening, after he came home, we did a little bit of gardening. I can't do heavy work by myself, so we need to work together. He was pulling up the old radishes to replant new ones, and asked me to get the packet of seeds for him. I figured it was more productive to go do something else instead of just standing there waiting while he pulled the old plants, so I specifically told him where I was placing the seeds for when he needed them. Just for good measure, I said it twice. "I'm putting the seeds on the step.... OK, the seeds are on the step." He acknowledged it and thanked me.
Not even five minutes later, he comes to get me. "Do you have those seeds?"
"Honey, I told you I put them on the step."
He responds with a facepalm. "I remember you saying that. It just didn't register."
Now, I would have understood if it was, "Where did you say you put those seeds?" I do that a LOT. But how can the entire conversation slip his mind in less than five minutes?
For the record, he's still working a lot of overtime. It didn't dry up after all, and he's working seven days a week. Yes, there is a lot on his mind, but it seems to be he's bringing it on himself.
Any insight? Again, is this something to worry about? Alzheimer's runs in his family, but I'm pretty sure he would say no to being checked out--if it's possible to do that.
Last evening, after he came home, we did a little bit of gardening. I can't do heavy work by myself, so we need to work together. He was pulling up the old radishes to replant new ones, and asked me to get the packet of seeds for him. I figured it was more productive to go do something else instead of just standing there waiting while he pulled the old plants, so I specifically told him where I was placing the seeds for when he needed them. Just for good measure, I said it twice. "I'm putting the seeds on the step.... OK, the seeds are on the step." He acknowledged it and thanked me.
Not even five minutes later, he comes to get me. "Do you have those seeds?"
"Honey, I told you I put them on the step."
He responds with a facepalm. "I remember you saying that. It just didn't register."
Now, I would have understood if it was, "Where did you say you put those seeds?" I do that a LOT. But how can the entire conversation slip his mind in less than five minutes?
For the record, he's still working a lot of overtime. It didn't dry up after all, and he's working seven days a week. Yes, there is a lot on his mind, but it seems to be he's bringing it on himself.
Any insight? Again, is this something to worry about? Alzheimer's runs in his family, but I'm pretty sure he would say no to being checked out--if it's possible to do that.
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