My daughter is five, so it has been about 6 years since my assault. Now I love my daughter and everything but I am just so frustrated that I have to stomach my attacker at visits because he has rights and stuff. Then I have nightmares of the attack days after the visit for her. Now I have not seen him for about two years because he is in jail but now I am finding that I am having flashbacks of the attack and he is no where around. I am at a loss of what to do. I never pressed charges because he is my daughter's father and thus a part of her but feel that maybe I should of. Too late now because the statue of limitations is up and I do not want my daughter to hate me however, I cannot continue to have nightmares and flashbacks either. What is a girl to do???