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Hi Ted...
I appreciate you clarifying your position. I have thanked the Lord many times for medicine. I have COPD (I don't smoke, I lived in second hand smoke for 20 years)... and I have had pneumonia for the past 2 winters and the prednisone and inhalers were a blessing. I could name so many things.
My parents are doing what they feel is best and I don't begrudge them that. However, I disagree with them in love. My mindset is this: if its 20 degrees outside and windy, I reach for my coat and gloves. Does that mean I am depending on my coat and gloves more than God? No. It means I thank the Lord that He provided them for me so I don't freeze to death.
My painful issue with my parents is that my mother's life could have been saved had she agreed to medical care and accepted it as a blessing from the Lord. Personally, I could not let my sons or my husband make decision to accept death and I sit by and do nothing to help the situation. I am crushed that my father is willing to live without my mother and that he chooses to slowly let her possibly choose death.
My warning to Him was that if he does not call 911 or take her to the E.R., the authorities will see this as neglect and now my father could be put in a lot of trouble, which I shared with him. This is a situation only the Lord can handle. I have come to the point with this where He is teaching me to "cast all my anxieties on Him" and that this is too much for me to carry.
So, not only am I worried for my mother's life (which could have been helped) but now my father could be brought up on charges. It's a bit overwhelming. When I warned him of this, he became defensive, angry and said he doesn't care about the authorities. (sigh)
Anyway, I am of the personal conviction that if something can be done to save a life, it should be done. The "watchman on the wall" in Ezekiel warned people and did not remain silent (with the intent of hoping those hearing would be saved). The Lord will hold us accountable if we don't warn.
Blessings, brother.
Hi Shulamite,
Well, as long as you're willing to allow that it is merely your personal conviction, then I have no problem with it. However, when you want your personal convictions to be set above those of others, then some problems do arise. I'm saddened that you wouldn't allow your children or husband to make their own decisions about their lives as regards this issue. Of course, the chances are that you will have succumbed to your own desperate struggle for this life before it becomes an issue with your children, but I'm certainly thankful that you are not my wife.
I'm going on 60 and so this discussion has come in our lives. I have informed my wife that if I should ever go to a doctor for a check up and he tells me that I have cancer or some liver disease or some other debilitating illness, that I am satisfied to say to that doctor, "Well, thank you doctor for giving me a heads up on how I am likely going to die. We shall see what the Lord has in store for me." I will then go home and sit with my wife and explain to her what the doctor told me and it is my hope that she will respond, "I love you and I will be here with you."
You see, I'm a sinner. I know that I am going to die. Does it really matter in the grand scheme of things if I give up my body today or tomorrow? Is there something I think that I will gain by fighting for more days? You see, I've dealt with quite a few elderly sick. Usually the end comes just as it would have if they had just allowed their bodies to process death without interference. It's just a matter of a few days or years added on. Again I ask: Is there some goal or greater glory that we will attain in God's eyes by struggling against death?
God bless you.
IN Christ, Ted
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