Tinkerbells
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I am glad you are in counseling for yourself. I still see you poininting the blame and putting another man ahead of your husband. I get that your husband has friends as well, but unless you have proof they are sending inappropriate comments about his appearance, you can't just use that as justification to remain friends with the guy you called you sexy.I am in counseling for myself. Our couples workshop thru our church will begin on Sunday and run each Sunday for 10 weeks. My feiends are not going anywhere. He has not pushed his friends to the side and I am sure they have commented on his looks. This is all this man said to me as my friend of over 8 yrs. Again, he makes tge situation that much worse by withholding. I am not a perfect person, nor do I display to be but I desire attention, compliments in particular from my husband. He refused to do anything and everything is mu fault. He does nothing wrong. Right nlw we have gone days with no touching, kissimg, Nothing! bcuz he gets mad about whatever and this is what he does. I attempted to talk to him and give him a hug. He wouldnt even put his phone down so I said forget it. I dont have to beg for something I feel should come naturally. Needless. to say, another night of the same.
I wish you two the best, but honestly, I think you both need to work on yourselves; asking God for humility.
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