my husband loves inappropriate content

[freda]

I need lots of prayer. It makes me so sick. I come home from work and find on my computer where he has been watching it. It really makes me feel unloved, no matter what he says.

 

[thejdubb02]

Welcome to CF.

This is a major problem that many people have and most dont know how to deal with it. I dont have any answers, nor is this the place to answer tha for you.

Here is the forum designed for this exact topic:
http://www.christianforums.com/f214-inappropriate contentography-addiction-support.html

I will pray for you. Good luck.

 

[TenBenson]

Its only a bit of inappropriate content! Don't let it get you down. It's not as if he's peddling drugs or smuggling nukes is it?

 

[Anti Existance]

I think that you need to know that there is a difference between men and woman, as said in a oprah show. A woman only needs to have one prize , but a man needs many. I want to press you on the heart that this is not necesseraly that you husband doesn't love you. Nor that it means that he wants to cheat on you or hurt your feelings , I don't want you to get the feeling that i am advocating what he is doing , but men are always stuffed full with hormones that make us lead to want to have intercourse with our opposite sexe. I can only tell you that when the years pass his love for inappropriate content will dwindle and his love for you will mature. You only need to give it time and keep loving him for what its worth. If all goes well he will discard the bad habit and count his blessings with you. All you can do therefore is wait, even tho its hard.

big hug.

 

[JustPrayAnyways]

I need lots of prayer. It makes me so sick. I come home from work and find on my computer where he has been watching it. It really makes me feel unloved, no matter what he says.

I'd feel the same way as you if my husband were doing that .....in a way it's almost like he's cheating

welcome to Christian Forums!!!

 

[Honibee]

Hi Freda, so glad you made your way to the forums!

Its only a bit of inappropriate content!

Only? Women understand the visual orientation of men. It's
very unsettling for a woman to face infidelity, imaginary or
otherwise.

There are ministries dedicated to wives of inappropriate content addicts. I
listed one that has tremendous reputation. Hope this helps.

www.estherministries.org

 

[CountryLady]

Welcome to the site. I'm glad your here. God bless you.

 

[tryme]

Welcome to CF.

Here are a few places you may want to start at.
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For fun check out the Relaxation or Hobbies areas
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[cajunlady]

Welcome to the forums, I am praying for you and your hubby...God bless...

 

[JPPT1974]

Praying for you and your husband
That he will seek Christian help & guidance
Sorry about what your family is going through

 

[Organist]

It is still adultery. No matter what TenBenson says, as he clearly doesn't know what he's talking about. Your husband needs to face the sin, and repent... if he is a Christian.

 

[peacechild4]

Hi Freda and welcome to the forum..

inappropriate content is a horrible horrible thing.. so powerful.. because even in its mildest forms.. it is everywhere.. and we seem powerless to stop it..

But God can give us the strength to overcome it!!

I guess if it were the other way around and you had the problem... how would you want him to treat you... with disgust or love??? You still love him right?? I know the stuff is horrible.. but satan.. the evil one is controlling your husband through this.. as if he had a hook in his mouth.. and is being reeled in slowly.. But God who is love can win this war!! Love never fails..

Love your husband.. ask God to help you help him through this.. take all that this does to you.. and ask God to carry that.. I don't think any loving wife... would want to lug around that burden because it will destroy you and your marriage..

It does not mean you like what he is doing.. or agree with it..

Forgiveness doesn't make the other person right, it makes you free. -- Stormie Omartian

I will pray...

Dear God I pray for Freda that You help her win this battle... I pray that her husband is delivered from the need to look at inappropriate content.. I pray that You help Freda to forgive him and love him...I pray that through this their marriage is strengthened.. I praise You that greater are You in us then he that is in the world.. I pray that this dear sister.. knows You are with her and will help her.. I pray that her husband can be an overcomer.. I thank You that Your strength is made perfect in our weakness.. amen and amen

from Sharon

 

[daddygeorge]

You Know I had a problem with this myself, I have gotten over it with the help of my wife. I don't know how to confort you but I will tell you I know the feelinugs you are having are painful, and I will pray for you and your husband.

 

[thepianist]

Hello and welcome to the forums. May you find your time here most enjoyable!

Its only a bit of inappropriate content! Don't let it get you down. It's not as if he's peddling drugs or smuggling nukes is it?

Oh my, what a terrible way to look at something that could devastate a marriage! This is the same as adultery.....period.

You and your situation will be in my prayers, dear. May God Bless you.

 

[BishopGodsey]

Hello and welcome. We will keep you and your husband in our prayers.

 

[labellady]

Hi! Welcome to CF!

 

[Orchids]

Of course you are hurt, it is the same thing as adultery. Will pray for you and your husband.

Anyway, hello and welcome to Christian Forums. May you be blessed here.

 

[FriarTuck]

Welcome

Peace be with you

 

[woman.at.the.well]

in the Name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! Welcome to the CF Family!

Father I pray You heal her husband from this terrible addiction of inappropriate content. Free him from this bondage. Heal him and make him whole in You!

In Jesus Name
Amen