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My girlfriend cheated on me 4 times

Discussion in 'Prayer Wall' started by sipekas, Oct 1, 2009.

  1. sipekas

    sipekas Newbie

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    I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 7 years now, through that time she had cheated on me 4 times. Now I'm no longer with her. But the last one, which just happened over a week ago was very painful for me.
    I live in Indonesia, I'm a doctor and my ex is a doctor too.
    She is one year younger than me.
    She was my first girlfriend, though I was her seventh.
    If you're asking why I write my personal story in this forum cause I feel noone here knows me, and that's better. I don't want my mother to know my problems. I don't want her to be troubled with my problems. I have friends, a lot of them, but I tend to keep my personal problems to myself, only a few of my friends know my problems right to the very details.
    And in 17 days time from now I'm going to face a test in the internal medicine department for a specialist course... but I just can't put anything inside my head right now.
    I'm so very desperately devastated...

    Maybe you don't know my story with her... but I just need someone to talk to...
     
  2. Mike555444

    Mike555444 Washing Feet

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    1whirlwind Senior Member

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    :prayer: A doctor will have to be able to function no matter what personal problems he/she has. This test you are facing in a few days is a big one. One you have worked for for years. You must clear your mind. This is your future.

    I will certainly be praying for our Father to help you. May God bless.
     
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    richterforest Psalms 23

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    Just a little note to tell you that if your ex cheated on you this many times, there is a big problem, this woman most likely is not meant for you, so get on with your life. I'm sure that God has a happy and bright and professional future for you, so concentrate on passing this test. If you must keep thinking about her, do it AFTER the test, but try not to do it before...okay.

    Father God, I know that You understand his pain. I lift him up to You and ask that You will strengthen him, and help him to overcome this sad relationship once and for all. Help him to cast his mind into his studies so he will accomplish to pass his test in the Internal Medicine Specialist Department. May he do well now and in the future, may he help many and be Your Servant, In Jesus Name, Amen..
     
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    Praying for you, too.

    Rely on Yahweh's strength - ask Him to help you forgive her & heal you. Ask Him to clear your mind of that situation, to help you to recall the test information, and praise Him for who He is.
     
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    RockofPeace Spiritual Warrior in Training

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    I'm praying for you man. :)
     
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