Something impressed upon me since I was a teen, and that I have also tried to impress upon my children, is that acting is not a good career choice for a Christian (unless you can restrict yourself to Christian productions). Nothing is inherently sinful with acting and theater as long as it is regulated by moral decency but obviously in our current culture it mostly is not. In addition to the depravity we see in modern movies and tv, I had friends in my youth who majored in theater in college and from them I learned about some of the disturbing things that go on in college drama courses and experimental theatre.
My daughter is 16, and in spite of my misgivings about drama and acting, I've allowed her to take drama in high school in conjunction with a creative writing and literature course. There's been nothing immoral about the silly little plays she's done in the school cafeteria and it seems to have done her good. She had become gloomy before but her drama activities have put a spark in her, motivated her and given her some confidence. However she's now become more serious about acting and hopes to take drama classes this summer at a community college. She's also thinking about majoring in theater and pursuing acting professionally. It's also become clear to me that she has no thought of restricting her acting to Christian settings and themes. In fact her faith is clearly in the process of weakening now.
She knows how I feel about this subject and I believe I should put my foot down on this matter not allow her to take any college drama classes. However, at the same time, I hate to take that spark out of her and see her become gloomy again. She seems so happy and eager when she speaks about acting and I struggle with the idea of deflating her hopes and possibly provoking rebellion in her.
Any input? Am I being too cautious and strict? Will I do more harm than good if I try to keep my daughter from her aspirations? Or am I just being weak and emotionally manipulated? I realize I cannot control what she does with her life but I can control what I will support while she is under my charge. In additional to the moral implications of acting, it is not a practical career to pursue. Furthermore she is a good student and has potential to do any number of things with her life. I would hate to see her throw it away.
Thanks for any thoughts anyone can share with me on this.
My daughter is 16, and in spite of my misgivings about drama and acting, I've allowed her to take drama in high school in conjunction with a creative writing and literature course. There's been nothing immoral about the silly little plays she's done in the school cafeteria and it seems to have done her good. She had become gloomy before but her drama activities have put a spark in her, motivated her and given her some confidence. However she's now become more serious about acting and hopes to take drama classes this summer at a community college. She's also thinking about majoring in theater and pursuing acting professionally. It's also become clear to me that she has no thought of restricting her acting to Christian settings and themes. In fact her faith is clearly in the process of weakening now.
She knows how I feel about this subject and I believe I should put my foot down on this matter not allow her to take any college drama classes. However, at the same time, I hate to take that spark out of her and see her become gloomy again. She seems so happy and eager when she speaks about acting and I struggle with the idea of deflating her hopes and possibly provoking rebellion in her.
Any input? Am I being too cautious and strict? Will I do more harm than good if I try to keep my daughter from her aspirations? Or am I just being weak and emotionally manipulated? I realize I cannot control what she does with her life but I can control what I will support while she is under my charge. In additional to the moral implications of acting, it is not a practical career to pursue. Furthermore she is a good student and has potential to do any number of things with her life. I would hate to see her throw it away.
Thanks for any thoughts anyone can share with me on this.