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Very wise, Katherine. I'm with you.
It's better than sugar-coating it. Maybe people need to see the truth of a mixed-faith marriage and at least make an informed decision as to whether they would be happy in the marriage. If they decide that it wouldn't work for them, it is probably better that they didn't go through with the marriage and make a big mistake. If they decide to get married, at least they know what they may ( or will) be dealing with. I had a friend who was engaged to an extremely jealous man and wasn't sure if she should marry him. She knew my mother had the same problem in her first marriage. She asked me to ask my mother for advice. My mom didn't usually give advice but she said that my friend had to realize that she wasn't going to change him and had to think long and hard about whether she could live with the jealousy. My friend ended up breaking off the relationship. Is pointing out the reality of a mixed-religion relationship really bad or is it telling them the truth so that they can make an informed decision as to whether they can live with and be happy with what they may have to live with if they get married?
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