Rather than addressing the inappropriate content issue perhaps you need to address the repentance issue... I am not judging you because for several years I had the same problem and thought I was saved. Praise God that you haven't gone the extra step and actually had an affair as I did, but if you are regularly looking at inappropriate content chances are you aren't actually saved. I know many might say that I'm being "judgemental" and don't know your heart but scripture makes it clear that you will know them by their fruit. Galatians 5:22-23 "But the fruit of the Spirit is LOVE, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, FAITHFULLNESS, gentleness and SELF-CONTROL. Against such things there is no law." caps were added by me. If you cannot see that you have been growing in holiness/fruit you really need to see if in fact you are saved. 2 Corinthians 13:5 "Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in youunless, of course, you fail the test?" I can assure you however that you are married to the right woman though because well, you married her. You saying that you didn't see inappropriate content as an issue is another indication that you may have never had genuine repentance. There are six signs to genuine repentance 1. Recognition for sin. 2. Sorrow for sin. 3. Shame of sin. 4 Confession for sin. 5. Forsaking of sin. 6. Hatred of sin. This is only followed through putting your trust in Christ. Once you put your trust in Christ the fruit will follow naturally because you have put to death your sinful nature. After doing these things you must avoid things that may cause you to stumble, ie public pools, beaches, etc. There have been several times that I have even had to walk with my head down looking at the floor because I am afraid of what my eyes may see. Genuine repentance will guide you to a point of wanting to rip out your eyes when they offend you. I hope this helps. God Bless.