Just to add my two cents into the equation, without going into all 5 points of the Calvinist view, but strictly dealing with Total Depravity. While not a calvinist, arminian, or other wise, I can agree with this statement that man is dead in trespasses and sins (Ephesians 2:1), and there is nothing that a person can do on their own will to remove those sins and trespasses. I don't really think that is the issue on either side of the debate. The issues is how being dead in sins is defined: According to the Calvinist view they equate being dead in sins with complete death. To clarify a person dead in sins is the same as a person laying on a table dead and unable to respond to the Gospel much less anything else therefore completely Inable. I which that individual would require Regeneration (Irresistable Grace) first to be able to respond. They will often use Lazereth as an example. But this is not what Ephesian 2:1 is saying.
Ephesians 2:1-Just means that we all have fallen short of the Glory of God (Romans 3), which is sin. Doesn't matter if its fallen short an inch or a mile you have broken Gods law. The penalty for breaking Gods law is death. (Romans 5). Does that mean that the person is dead. No- Means as Good as dead. Its death of the soul when we leave this earth, if we have sin staining our record that our soul wont be raised to eternal salvation. we will die in eternity. Right?
To make a analogy, not all analogies are perfect: We in western society have Death Row. Ever heard the term "Dead man Walking. Its whats being described in Ephesians 2:1. A person breaks the law, and for breaking the law is sentenced to death, (The bible says you break Gods law the penalty is death). Now until this criminal on death row is actually dead, and unless they have a pardon, they are considered as "Good as Dead", (Bible speaking its the same-You break Gods law (sin) we are sentenced to death and considered as good as dead unless we have a pardon to remove that sin off our record, which the pardon is the blood of Christ). No- since this Inmate is As good as dead is he completely disabled to do anything, how about accepting or rejecting a pardon?
Now what I want to provide is 2 words that we all have heard believer or not, and show that they require something from us as sinners apart from God. Remember Calvinist say that a person requires regeneration first to respond to the Gospel. With that in mind, the 2 words are Believe and Repent. Let me make very clear I'm not talking about WORKS when I said it requires something from the sinner! As I've already stated there is not a thing that a person can do to remove sin by their own will from their record to have merit to boldly approach Gods throne (Hebrews).
Believe is Pisteuo in the Greek. Its made up of 2 Greek words Pistis and Peithos. Pistis - Means to trust or have faith with Confidence, some say to entrust with confidence. Peithos - Means to persuade or be persuaded. And if you put the 2 together you have the Literal definition of Believe: To trust or have faith with confidence in something/object/thing because you have been persuaded that the something/object/thing is true. In our case its being persuaded by what we have heard by the Gospel to be true. Concerning our Lord Jesus Christ.
Go to John 3
V15: That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life.
v16: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Believeth in these 2 verses are Pisteuo: We looked at the definition already. So these verses should read in context: That whosoever Believeth (Trusts/Entrusts/ or haves faith (Action) with confidence in me Jesus Christ) because you have been persuaded by what you heard (here is the living word because Christ has not finished his work, now in our time the Gospel) concerning me (John 3:1-16, really the prophets as well) That I Jesus Christ am the only begotten (V16) Son of God that came down from heaven, and That I Jesus Christ will be raised. And through the water and Spirit will raise you as well and you will not perish but have everlasting life. If they believe in what they heard is confirmed in V11 of the same chapter.
You will see that both Believe and Repent go hand in hand, you cannot separate them. Repent, now nine times our of ten if you ask somebody what repent means they will say to turn from sin or repent of sin. I'm not going to go into debate on this topic here. Repent in the Greek in Metanoia. It simply means a Change of mind. Go to Mark 1:14-15
v14: Now after that John was put in prison, Jesus came into Galilee, preaching the gospel of the kingdom of God,
v15: And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.
Since I've covered the meaning of Believe and Repent lets see what Christ is saying here. v15 - And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent (have a change of mind) and believe (Pisteuo: trust with confidence because you've been persuaded by what you've heard to be true concerning Christ) the gospel.
Literally have a change of mind to Trust with confidence in me Jesus Christ because you've been persuaded that the Gospel message you heard concerning me is True. That I Jesus Christ can remove your sins, and that the Kingdom of your redemption is at hand.
As you can see both Believe and Repent are on the part of the sinner. These are not my words but by Christ himself. He is asking for a response from them. Do you see regeneration first? No.
This is all based on what the sinner heard, which is the Gospel. The Calvinist says that we a unable to respond to the Gospel unless regenerated first by God. But how does the Gospel produce and change of mind to persuade and product Trust with confidence? Simple Its has the power of God.
Hebrews 4:12: For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.
The word cuts straight to the SOUL and SPIRIT. Its a DISCERNER of the INTENTS of the HEART! Its QUICK and POWERFUL! It will bring conviction to allow a FREE WILL CHOICE to accept or reject! Not a work, but a conviction to lay down and submit your self willingly to God to say I cant save my self. I can't remove my sin, I give it all to you. I Entrust with Confidence my life and the sin etc. into your hands. And the Glory is all to God.
To say that a person dead in sin is unable to respond to the Gospel is to contradict the power of the Gospel. To make my last point. Ephesians 1:13: In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,
Ephesians 1:13 - I believe sums it all up. Paul talking to Christians, about how they had salvation before they became believers. It lays out the order of the process.
1: AFTER they HEARD the WORD of TRUTH- The GOSPEL-The Power of God to Salvation.
2: Then they Trusted/Believed (Pisteuo) with Confidence in Christ because the Gospel they heard brought persuasion. which caused repentance or a change of mind, even though not directly referenced.
3: AFTER 1 & 2 - Then they were sealed with that holy Spirit of Promise!
I think I clearly shown that we're not completely inable to make a response to the Gospel which is the Call/Ivintation of God unto salvation just because we all have fallen short of his Law, and have sin. Thanks.