Ladies, what is your ideal Christian man?

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Hello ladies. Since I can't go into the women's forum, I will ask the single ladies here. When looking for husband/boyfriend, what qualities would you look for? What 's your ideal husband/boyfriend?

I just wanna to learn more about the complicated mind of girls :)
 
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A best friend
Same place in God as me (roughly)
Same vision
Someone who sees me as his partner/buddy
Someone who'll do their best to be a good dad
Someone trustworthy morally
Someone I respect for who he is
Someone I just enjoy being around
Someone who's given their life over to God for his service


What I don't expect:
- An ex-model
- Someone with lots of great material stuff. Stuff is nice but it's still just stuff. A calling is more important.
- Someone who'll always give me all the attention and support and love at the perfect moment and be able to read my mind.
- Someone who'll be the big, smoozy romantic. Any romance is a bonus and some of course is expected and appreciated, but I don't expect a sitcom guy who always buys and says the right thing at the right time because he's sticking to a script written by a woman.
- to give up his sports, buddys or interests just because I don't share them
- to be able to always make me happy

:)
 
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1.Someone christian
2. Someone completly trusworthy
3. Someone loving and caring
4. Someone bright, with a sense of humor
5.someone not too old (i really don't like older men)

would be nice:
someone a bit romantic
someone not too short (i'm tall)
someone who enjoys talking about art and politics, or at least is able to contribute to such a conversation - so he could fit in with my friends.


what i don't expect:
someone good-looking
someone rich
someone from my part of the world - i'm ready to move anywhere
someone tidy (i'm not a clean-freak)
someone who will come shopping with me and get interested in girly things
 
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What I don't expect:
- An ex-model

so he still needs to be model, huh? ;)
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hmmm I don't think there is a certian "ideal", cause no one is perfect. For me a good Christian man is one that has a growing relationship with Jesus, and is actively working with God not against Him. Someone that is kind to others and has integrity. Someone that doesn't misuse people. Knows what he wants in life- no wishy washyness
 
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I'm 24 and never even had a date but here are some things I would like my mate to be
1) God fearing
2) Good Looking (by my standards who's cute to me might not be cute to you)
3) Trustworthy
4) Honest
5) Generous
6) HUMBLE
7) loves me with all his heart
8) treats everyone with the same respect
 
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Someone who looks at me, and you can just tell that they are so happy to be with me.
Sense of humor, fun to be with... yet responsible (especially with finances, since I tend to be good in that department)
Loves kids, because family is very important to me. I'm an only child and I want to have a whole herd of children.
ROMANCE!!!!
 
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There are a few other things I'd like, but one of the things I'd like most in a christian would be a non sexist man. I find far too many of them in Christian circles, who I don't have the slightest interest in.

Other things would also be necessary, but this is one of the big ones at the moment, and if they were sexist, I wouldn't continue anything.
 
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There are a few other things I'd like, but one of the things I'd like most in a christian would be a non sexist man. I find far too many of them in Christian circles, who I don't have the slightest interest in.

Other things would also be necessary, but this is one of the big ones at the moment, and if they were sexist, I wouldn't continue anything.
I know what you mean... just the other day I told a Christian guy that I played rugby in high school and he said "That's not a girl's sport"... I was like "WHAT?"
 
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I know what you mean... just the other day I told a Christian guy that I played rugby in high school and he said "That's not a girl's sport"... I was like "WHAT?"

lol, oh dear :(:hug:

Yeah I'd keep well away from guys like that xx
 
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