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Discussion in 'Friendship Court' started by xounstaer, Dec 11, 2011.

  1. xounstaer

    xounstaer his qualities..

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    i would change all the nagative symptoms i feel. how i used to be that is.

    feeling derpressed or so, or other mental symptoms i also have are less worse then this combination of mental with' physical. actually if my fysical health (caused be my pscyche) is allright then i feel good physically and also much better mentally.

    that's all i can say about it.

    i did i computerstudy ict for half a year. but then i went working in construction.
    cars can be fun i think, an uncle of mine also used to fix/work at cars.
    time with your wife sounds good to that is for you then :) no just kidding.

    as i said i lik eto talk. that is also with the nurses or psychologist. it's most definate not always about trouble. and i have a good understanding with them. they know i can think right and have good insight into my mental things'. if i dont even know it better.


    i spent over a year or two to totally get down to the bottom of me. in the end a statistic graphic is what's left. but not everything fits into digits or even words.

    i can also have a good time with fellow clients, so i meta guy here who's very cool to me. he also believes. he's not christian though but i know you don not have to be christian to believe precious things. i sometimes get confused with the story of josef. since he sya he feels like he is the right hand of god.

    the same is siad about benjamin. he inspires me with the way he thinks and how he understand me.

    the problem with me may be i emraced the psychitric vieuws perhaps a lill to much. leaving me believing practicly nothing anymore. and i do believe... i guess that caused me to worrie a lot.

    i somehow got to feel as it it is forbidden to believe. wether it is me or jesus :)

    and that hurts me..

    you say you're an atheist. could you tell me a bit more about how you feel about christianity then? or any that has to do with believe.
    it may be believe in a deferent sense. (as in. i believe, i find, i think)or i know..

    i'd like to know.

    ps the chance that it is something i ( dont or) cant believe is nihil.
     
  2. Cute Tink

    Cute Tink Whatever

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    To me, Christianity is fine. It is mostly based around a fairly decent set of morals (there are some parts I disagree with) and I think that some of the followers take some of it too far when they start interfering with other people's lives.

    It's pretty much the same for any religion to me. Believing in a deity, to me, is a hope more than anything. I just don't feel like there's anything else out there.

    What is the most dangerous thing you would ever do (i.e. skydiving)?
     
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    (having nearly drowned :eek: in the Gulf of Mexico),

    *Figureskating* :clap: is for me 99.9% less risky than being in anything bigger than a Bath-tub ^_^
     
  4. xounstaer

    xounstaer his qualities..

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    i guess anything that wouldnt damage or kill me, anmd are supposed to be fun i would dare to do. but i might need a push.. literally maybe..:)

    mind i ask you what you think about jesus returnal. i red some which may have changed my mind a bit.

    i can now state there will be noone coming anymore. at the hand of knowledge i got.

    what would you do if tommorow a person would come from god knows where and says he is jesus?

    i got several things i would say....

    i feel bad because this matter stays stuck in my head, or sad.
    i try to find the way out but i dont see it.

    just 1 post to give your vieuw about it. then back to biscuit and cakes, or so..:)
     
  5. Cute Tink

    Cute Tink Whatever

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    Frankly I would probably question his sanity. I would doubt anything that people were saying about him creating miracles. I would have to see things for myself and judge accordingly.

    What holidays do you celebrate?
     
  6. xounstaer

    xounstaer his qualities..

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    well christmas is coming.
    i hope i'll have a good time with my parents then. good food i hope.
    next is old and new year. which i am gonna try to stay awake at.

    then 14 january is my birthday. i can try to ignore it. but my memory still works.

    then what's next? i guess i celebrate pretty much every holiday. or at least every christian holiday.

    we also have a few days in relation to the royal family. which i dont celbrate a lot.
    then there is also carnaval in this part of the netherlands, which i dont celebrate.



    what work is it haht you do? do you have a job.
    i think i didnt ask you, and you didnt tell either did you?

    i used to do pointing and i was in the army for half a year. and i was in the construction of tents. maga ones for exhibitons and large partys.

    when i was allready psychotic;
    i worked through an employment agency at a construction store. (what's that called)
    and i did work with a conveyer belt (i have to look up some words..)

    ever since i got into psychiatry i did voluntery work. and ofcourse following therapy's was an activity too i guess.

    i thought and still somewhat think i'll never work again. i got rejected for work. for 80 to a 100 percent.

    but there's people who think i'll recover far enough so that i may be able to work again. (i dont know yet, i first have to see..)


    btw i really like talking to you, you're good at askin gquestions i guess. i try to do so too :)

    cheers
     
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    I am a legal secretary. Basically I prep criminal cases for prosecution.

    Thank you, but to be fair, I steal a lot of questions from the other face the board topics.

    What job would you most like to have?
     
  8. xounstaer

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    i dont know :(

    but uhh so somebody just takes the task to ask questions and eximine a person? thats uhh...ok

    another question which i also really have been wanting to ask is; where should i be on this forum? no wi told you a bit about me perhaps you have an idea what catagory's and boards might be intresting to me.

    and what is the handle here? is it haevy discussion mostly or is it more like a community?

    and what should and shouldn't i say.

    must i sound very sober or may i step out of line?

    you; where are you most active. and how do you remain active?

    just wondering, since i would like to talk, talkin gi see as most important thing to me. i dont always have a thing to say. but usually i really like to talk.

    and can i ask for deletion of my messages from the past? or do people have a good tolerance for weird talk?

    i mean i can step out of line, and i guess i also did. and now feel like people may find me weird.

    it's my own fault. i know. but i'd love to be able to be present here in a good and right way.

    some other forums wont even allow me to join because of my psychosis. usually i don teven get a ,lot of respodn when i replie. it's just the way it is i guess.

    as if even when i make perfect sense people still hear somewhat what's behind it.

    ps i'd like to keep talking here though, but i guess if you leave...ow no does someone else take it over then?? :-s
     
  9. Cute Tink

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    The leisure section (where this topic is) would be good. There are lots of other sections that you might want to explore, depending on what you want to discuss. The Singles section can be a lot of fun. If you want to talk to other people who have similar challenges as you, you can try this forum. There is also the Society that can be very interesting, though it can be a bit heated.

    Depends on the section and the topic. Most of the time, it is rather community oriented, but some things can get confrontational.

    As far as what you shouldn't say, I would suggest you review the rules if you are wondering.

    I poke around in the newest topics a lot and I try to keep topics in this section active.

    There are some people who are known for their "weird talk" and are welcomed. I would suggest that such things would be for the less serious areas as some people, while trying to have serious discussions, don't like off topic posting. You can ask for deletions by contacting a moderator for that section.

    This section is not very active, though I do what I can to keep it active. I do stick around a lot, so if I'm not on at that moment, I will be back.

    This was probably the longest post I've made in some time ;)

    Do you enjoy flying? Would you ever want to pilot a plane?
     
  10. xounstaer

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    did i say i i flew once?

    i did, i thought it was a good experience. we went to turkey so it wasnt a long trip. i can ben anxious, but not for flying or such.

    pilot a plane huh, hmmm i guess that would be nice.

    how about we end this thread? i mean i loved talking to you, but maybe you aught to keep other topics alive as well. :)

    i'll go look at you recomandations. as for the rules i dont tend to break any rules. im not in for that, and i guess i might have red them allready. on some other forums where i am welkom they told they didnt understand why i got banned since im not really in for trouble or such.

    they use just norms and values as insociety, and i wass of well there. that was the forum for people with schizophrenia. i dotn post there anymore since i've spoken enough about sickness in my opinion.

    there's also a dutch forum for christians where i am active. and that goes pretty well. i guess it is a kind of humanity missing on some forums. where evenif you dont mess up topics but are unclear or so then ban you. without knowing what it does with a person, or what it can do.

    i look forward to participating here. in a good manner.

    thak you very muchfor your time cute tink. i guess we'll meet each other inother sections , probably.

    i've told so much here. sometimes i can really ratle on. well babble on sounds better.
    but know im not sure wht to keep talking about here. introduced myself quit a bit i guess.

    how about i keep this topic somewhat as a more personal topic?
    is that common that people have their own thread?
     
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    I have time and the other topics aren't very active. Don't worry about it. I'll keep asking questions and you can answer them as your time permits. :thumbsup:

    In this section, it is common to have your own thread. Anyone who wants one can have one.

    Have you ever been on a large ship?
     
  12. xounstaer

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    yes but not on a cruise or such, it's calleld..hm it's to cross certain parts of the world and you must park you're car in it.

    i guess that's the argest i ever been on. i may have set foot aboard other large boats but i never went far away by boat, or they werent even moving :)

    i checked out the section where member can meet members from the same counrty. the european section. so i said i am here too.

    it's so big thsi forum that i am holding a bit back with posting. i feel tiny sort a say.

    do you kno what board i can best talk about my christian status? i mean it's only just a lill while ago that i learned to accept the way jesus died and the meaning of it. it still can make me cry. but i am not fighting against it anymore.


    and to be honest i am still not exactly certain how i am supposed to live with that. i came to believe in jesus because of it. but i have been very much against it for a long time.

    it's not a hurry i guess. i've accepted pretty much all of christianity, but it's just the crusification which i wouldnt accept. it's a dillema to me. cause acceptinf it feels like agreeing with. i'd love to talk about this issue. which got me to care about jesus. and believe in him.

    i even think half of my psychosis is about this....

    or maybe you have some ideas, for me how to live with it.

    ps this stands loose in a certain way from me thinking or being delusional..
     
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    If you would like to speak to Christians about Christian issues, try the Edification section. If you would like some assistance anonymously, you can Ask the Chaplain. There is also the Christian Communities section for a variety of different denomination talk.

    I am certainly not the best person for ideas on that front. I would suggest starting a thread in one of the above areas to discuss that.

    That sounds like a ferry. I think I've been on one of those as well.

    What do you consider important in a wife?
     
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    i'll see if i can open a thread about it in one of the sections you suggested.

    what's important in a wife. i'm not sure. i guess she should be easy going, or how must i describe that? i think she should be smart but simple at the same time. no high heals for example, no make up either. i know that's the outside but i do think it also has to do with the air.

    the girl next door, is what desribes it best i guess.
    but the fact is that i am sick. not just in the sense of psychosis. i can be very sensative, which may be a problem. besides that i guess i should be totally stabel and be in a good mind set. if i want a relation.

    i had a relation with a nice girl. but due to me being so stressed and worrieng to much about lots of things. we broke up. we still are good friends, or at least we enden it in a friendly way.

    i guess if i am doing better which i think will happen. it should be decides automatically wether i like a girl or not. and if i feel comfortable or not. it has to go by itself i think.

    i dunno really..

    i do know i am more the shy kinda guy. and not bigmouthed when it comes to stepping to a girl i like.
     
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    Have you ever had a surprise birthday party thrown for you?
     
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    nope, it did happenb my classmates didnt know it was my birthday.
    even giving party's didnt happen often.

    it is ok with me i go my own way somewhat i guess, together with all i believe.
    i guess i'll get a better life in the future, i can hardly imagine it will stay sad and bad.

    for now am ok. tommorow am gonana get antidepresant i hope it's make the difference between me being active or not, and if not i feel down a lot.

    i went sporting just a lill while ago. i helped cooking the diner. that was good. :)
     
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    Have you ever had a virus on your computer?
     
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    yes i did.

    sorry for the late reply. i think i am going back to post at the forum where i usually post.

    thank you for your time. and if i feel like talking the way i did here i'll visit again.

    greets, stein.
     
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    It was nice meeting you. If you come back, drop a post by here and I'll start up again.:bye:
     
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    ok a large ship?

    i was wondering if i could get on board here, guess thats all up to my spirit, not?
     
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