Hi all!
So here's the big situation and I'll make it short and sweet. A close friend (a guy) and I (i'm a girl) want to hear a band play in another state. It would be a short roadtrip, drive over there, stay one night, drive back. We are platonic christian friends, have been for awhile. We have two other friends joining us. They are more his friends but I like them alot. They are not Christians and also a couple. We will all share a room to cut costs. We are poor college students (early 20s) and cant afford it any other way. So it's all share a room or not go at all. But I work at a church and want to be EXTRA careful. Of course NOTHING else is happening other than sleeping. I am sleeping alone, not sharing a bed with anyone ....let me emphasize..not going to share anything with anyone. I just want an outside perspective. To me I have no conviction of this being wrong, I have prayed and thought about it endlessly. I don't think there is anything compromising about this. I am giving everything careful thought. I am only concerned about my reputation, specially working at a church. But I'm young and want to do something fun with friends, and I so so so so want to go! But I want to live above reproach and not cause others to question, but I want to make the right decision. Anyone have any thoughts on this? Bad decision? Am I over thinking it?
So here's the big situation and I'll make it short and sweet. A close friend (a guy) and I (i'm a girl) want to hear a band play in another state. It would be a short roadtrip, drive over there, stay one night, drive back. We are platonic christian friends, have been for awhile. We have two other friends joining us. They are more his friends but I like them alot. They are not Christians and also a couple. We will all share a room to cut costs. We are poor college students (early 20s) and cant afford it any other way. So it's all share a room or not go at all. But I work at a church and want to be EXTRA careful. Of course NOTHING else is happening other than sleeping. I am sleeping alone, not sharing a bed with anyone ....let me emphasize..not going to share anything with anyone. I just want an outside perspective. To me I have no conviction of this being wrong, I have prayed and thought about it endlessly. I don't think there is anything compromising about this. I am giving everything careful thought. I am only concerned about my reputation, specially working at a church. But I'm young and want to do something fun with friends, and I so so so so want to go! But I want to live above reproach and not cause others to question, but I want to make the right decision. Anyone have any thoughts on this? Bad decision? Am I over thinking it?