I agree the heart of the individual is very important. But the words that come out of their mouth are also important. If I was to say GD but not mean it as blasphemy and my heart wasnt in it, would that make it ok?Lpe04 said:This is pretty ridiculous. I think what matters is the heart of an individual and what they are trying to say when they speak phrases. If this isn't causing someone to stumble and you are walking in love, then it is fine.
gennfamily said:ok just out of curiosity r u seriously telling me that in your opinion nothing offends u, nothing should offend me or anyone else and nothimg ought to be left out of our mind and speech?
MidnightCandel777 said:Is saying "holy crap" blasphemy?
Just wanted a thought or two on the subject. THANKS!
Damn is used in scripture and the meaning depends on context. Scripture cautions us on the use of coarse language but that is a societal issue. There are times when I am in a place that nothing can come out of my mouth and be considered coarse by anyone I am around and other times when even darn would offend someone. Words alone are just words and not in and of themselves faulty, vulgar, or offensive. It is only in the minds of humans that they become those things.gennfamily said:ok that was a profane example. use of the mouth needs to be clean not dirty. even a very small kid will be able to help you understand what a potty mouth is. Having a potty mouth doesn't make you grown up it just shows that you don't care about other peoples feelings. and fancy talk won't change it.
This changes none of what I have said. There are things we use in everday language that were offensive 50 years ago or less. Offensive is a completely and totally subjective (used the wrong word in my last post). The scriptures you pointed out are not speaking of vulgarity and likely not even coarse language but rather, if anything, profanity. Profanity and vulgarity are similar but not the same. You can be vulgar without being profane. The cautions against coarse speech are the only references to the most common "offensive" words. The scriptures referenced are speaking of much greater issues than simple vulgarity because a word is only vulgar is someone hearing it considers it such. You will not find a word that was vulgar in scripture and is still vulgar today. There is no list of words Christians cannot utter. We should try and not offend but the scriptures posted, and applied to vulgarity, are worse than legalism they are just plain taken out of context.gennfamily said:Proverbs Chapter 18 verses 20 and 21 states: 20 A mans stomach shall be satisfied from the fruit of his mouth; From the produce of his lips he shall be filled. 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit. And in Matthew Chapter 15, verses, 10 When He had called the multitude to Himself, He said to them, Hear and understand: 11 Not what goes into the mouth defiles a man; but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles a man.