Who is "pretending" to feel pity?
I always feel pity for people who refuse to receive what God is wanting to give them. Makes no sense and is akin to snubbing ones nose at God.
I don't think that's very likely. You don't even know me. How could you possibly know what God wants for me? It doesn't make any difference to you whatsoever that I don't want to be rich. Yet you act as though it really troubles you. I don't buy it.
You just wanted to pretend to feel sorry for me because you think your knowledge and revelation are superior to my own. You shake your head and wonder that I could be so blind. And you think it makes you look wiser and superior to show me pity for my ignorance.
But now that I have explained to you that it's a matter of my own conscience, you should have no reason to feel pity or to look down upon what you think is my poor inferior understanding of God's blessings. Instead, you should determine not to put a stumbling block in front of me by encouraging me to do something that goes against my own conscience (See Romans 14).
I am not coercing you to do anything against your will, just as God won't because He will not force His kids to receive His blessings no matter how much He wishes them to be blessed.:o
I did not use the word "coerce". I said entice and encourage.
If you had a friend with an eating disorder - someone who obsessively overate - would you say to that friend "Don't you know you could have a cupcake if you just asked for one?" And if she said "no, I don't want to ask for a cupcake" would you feel pity for her that she didn't want to ask for a cupcake? Would you say to her "oh, you should want to have a cupcake, you should ask for a cupcake."?
Like I already said... material blessings are enticing enough on their own. Like a cupcake to a glutton. The glutton doesn't need any encouragement to want it. And we shouldn't feel pity on a glutton who is determined not to cave to temptation. Rather, we should encourage him/her to put his/her focus elsewhere.
Which is why it is incomprehensible to me that some people go around encouraging one another to want, ask for and demand material blessings. Pu-lease. Show me a human being who has never been enticed by greed and I'll show you Jesus Christ. The rest of us are seduced by it at least once in our lives. And for most of us materialism is such a part of our everyday life that we don't even realize we are being drawn away by it.