Am i wrong? So for many years my mother and I have never gotten along. This has been since I was a little girl. And as far back as I can remember she has always favored my sister more then I. Well my mom need or wanted a place to stay. After live with her boyfriend of 17yr she decided move out of his house and because she is my mother I agreed to let her stay with me and my family. After about a month everything just went totally wrong. She was always complaining about every thing my children did right or wrong. She started being mean to my step-son ( who I have always treated as he was my flesh and blood child). My husband and I have had some problems. And I put him out. But when I told my mom that we were working out our problems. She got angry. So long story short. Me and my children took a road trip To see my sister who lives in TX( I live in MD) during the who trip I was unhappy so were my children. On the way home she just stared an arument about driving home. Then latter during a discussion my mom stared bad mouthing my husband. And by this time I had had enough. So after tell my mother how she was wrong and that she was being a hypocrite.( I felt this way because everything that my husband had been doing to me was wrong and she had anything to say about it but my sister was doing the exact same thing to her husband but worse and my mother had a justification for it it was ok and her eyes.)
After saying this she began to curse at me and even threaten to fight me all while driving home. And she is the one that is always quoting scripture telling people what's right and wrong in God's eyes and what people should and should not do. Yet she is using profanity and threatening violence. At that point I ended the conversation and we have not said anything to each other since we have been back. I don't like the tension in my home. And I feel like if she stays any longer the relationship will just be worse I feel like our relationship is what it is and I have to love her from afar. That being said I don't really want her here anymore I got all the warning signs that it would be like this but I tried to give it a chance because she is my mother. But now I'm feeling like it was the biggest mistake of my life. I'm at a lost.....Help I don't want to be disrespectful but she got to go.
After saying this she began to curse at me and even threaten to fight me all while driving home. And she is the one that is always quoting scripture telling people what's right and wrong in God's eyes and what people should and should not do. Yet she is using profanity and threatening violence. At that point I ended the conversation and we have not said anything to each other since we have been back. I don't like the tension in my home. And I feel like if she stays any longer the relationship will just be worse I feel like our relationship is what it is and I have to love her from afar. That being said I don't really want her here anymore I got all the warning signs that it would be like this but I tried to give it a chance because she is my mother. But now I'm feeling like it was the biggest mistake of my life. I'm at a lost.....Help I don't want to be disrespectful but she got to go.