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Romanseight2005
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Oh wait until you are late 40's!
I think it was Romans who said that what is easy in the the teens and 20's becomes more difficult over time. I used to lose weight at the drop of a hat. I also used to control my weight much better when I could run. However, genetic OA is making fast inroads into a number of my joints - both knees, one hip, one shoulder, cervical spine, and both big toes - and this makes exercise so much harder. I can no longer run, and have been told that quite firmly by the orthopedics specialist. I have bone on bone on one of my knees. Yes, we walk, we bike, and I have a home gym which is really fantastic, but it's a harder process to maintain a good weight, especially when there is often pain with exercise. Also, in the 40's, life is actually busier (for me) than it was 20 years ago. And yet, at the same time, more sedentary! When I was in my 20's, I walked everywhere - I mean, to work, at lunchtime, during my work day, back home, to friends/family houses .. I just walked. I carried my groceries home on the bus. At weekends I hiked during the day and danced the night away. That's not my lifestyle any more. It is a typical American, middle class, middle age, middle management lifestyle. I drive to my boss's parking spot only 2 minutes from the building. I sit at my desk all day long, with someone to gofer, and everything available by email. My printer is right by my desk. It's easier sometimes to sit in the office and do school work at my computer and eat my lunch than get up and move. In the evening, I drive home and right away I sit back down at my laptop and get back to my school work. Get up to eat dinner. Then sit back down to finish schoolwork. Then I wonder why I am stiff!!
That's why I have to make a concerted effort. I get up at 5am to work out! It's the only time that I have spare and it's not always easy to get up BUT I am privileged that we put that money aside, and left our cars on the drive, so that we could have a home gym. Also, we happen to live in a city where we suffer no really cold weather, so I don't have to worry about freezing in the garage while I work out. These are huge advantages. The trails we have in this city are another fantastic advantage. I couldn't imagine trying to walk outdoors without having this benefit.
Not everyone has these advantages/benefits and not everyone can afford a gym membership. People do not always live in neighborhoods that are safe to walk in. Many do not have the knowledge about cooking healthy foods. Many more do not have the money to buy good food. After all, you can buy a burger for 1 dollar at McDonalds, and what does 1 dollar buy at the grocery store? One apple?
I just don't think it's that easy.
You mentioned life being busier, and that is true. For instance, I now have not only responsibilities to my own husband and children, but I also have a mother who basically needs babysat. In other words, people in their forties get it from both sides in terms of responsibilities.
I also want to respond to something that was said earlier, I think by Niffer. She made a comment about choosing to spend time on the computer, that could be spent exercising, or I think that was the gist. Well, here is the thing. Much of my work needs to be done on the computer, so it's quite easy to flip over and post on a forum, while being in the middle of work responsibilities. It's a quick little break, verses what's entailed for the amount of exercise needed to maintain my proper weight. I can do little things at my desk, like move my legs or something, but again, it's not near the level of what it takes to keep the weight off. And yes, time management is definitely harder now, than it was in my 20's. Although, having a baby, doesn't leave one with tons of free time either.
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