I'm Destined to be single......

[Sonfest Rocker]

From where i stand i think im destned to be single...
I love my first love and can not find anyone that lives up to him
He is my best friend and now gay
and I think I may just have to accept that hes the only person i will ever love.. and accept that i will be single

 

[.Mikha'el.]

From where i stand i think im destned to be single...
I love my first love and can not find anyone that lives up to him
He is my best friend and now gay
and I think I may just have to accept that hes the only person i will ever love.. and accept that i will be single

 

[GQ Chris]

Nonsense. Embrace the future and new opportunities.

 

[shinkou]

I know that this is hard to you right now. It is sometimes very hard to move past for the first love. Oftenly it takes time a lot. Many people feel like they can never forget their first love. I can remember my first love too, and I can understant how you feel. I think that I will always love and remember my first love. It took me more than 3 years to stop thinking so much about my first love. First I compared every person to my first love. Then no one was the same or as good. But after time goes by, I realized that I could finally love somebody again.

For sometime too, I thought it could be impossible to get married in future. But now I think that maybe it can be possible again. It is hard to go through that, but in time it will get better.

I stayed friends with my first love for a long time too. Finally I had to stop meeting my first love anymore. After that, finally my heart is better. I still think sadly about my first love sometimes, but it is not so bad as the before times.

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

Nonsense. Embrace the future and new opportunities.

like what?

 

[GQ Chris]

like what?

Meeting new people . The past is the past, leave it there. You don't have to forget about it if you don't want to, but you don't want to to not take advantage of new opportunities.

 

[Shadolus]

I know that this is hard to you right now. It is sometimes very hard to move past for the first love. Oftenly it takes time a lot. Many people feel like they can never forget their first love. I can remember my first love too, and I can understant how you feel. I think that I will always love and remember my first love. It took me more than 3 years to stop thinking so much about my first love. First I compared every person to my first love. Then no one was the same or as good. But after time goes by, I realized that I could finally love somebody again.

For sometime too, I thought it could be impossible to get married in future. But now I think that maybe it can be possible again. It is hard to go through that, but in time it will get better.

I stayed friends with my first love for a long time too. Finally I had to stop meeting my first love anymore. After that, finally my heart is better. I still think sadly about my first love sometimes, but it is not so bad as the before times.

I agree.

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

Meeting new people . The past is the past, leave it there. You don't have to forget about it if you don't want to, but you don't want to to not take advantage of new opportunities.

new people i meet dont like me and dont accept me and dont like getting to know me

 

[Inkachu]

He's not the only person you're going to love. You've been an adult for 3 years. You've got a good 50-60 years ahead of you. You'll find other loves, believe me.

 

[Thunder Peel]

I'm in the same boat. As time goes on though I'm more content with being single. You just have to find the good in it and pursue things that make you happy. It's easier said than done but if you take it one day at a time it gets easier.

 

[Blank123]

If you're still in love with him you need to find a way to get some serious distance from him. You're hindering yourself from moving on and actually being open to other people while he's still such a big presence in your life.

 

[Im_A]

From where i stand i think im destned to be single...
I love my first love and can not find anyone that lives up to him
He is my best friend and now gay
and I think I may just have to accept that hes the only person i will ever love.. and accept that i will be single

My advice is to redefine what you think is 'best'.

Gay men for a heterosexual woman will never be 'best'.

 

[GQ Chris]

My advice is to redefine what you think is 'best'.

Gay men for a heterosexual woman will never be 'best'.

but maybe they can make good shopping partners.. "Queer eye for the straight girl"

 

[Tink]

I'm very sorry that you are going through this. I know how it feels to love someone that doesn't love you the same way.

 

[Tink]

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[yam]

Oh wow, I am so sorry. you will find someone .

 

[Im_A]

but maybe they can make good shopping partners.. "Queer eye for the straight girl"

Shopping is something that every straight guy should accept doing with his lady.

Just think...we can sit there and just check her body out as she tries out a many clothes.

No one can tell me that football and beer is better than watching your lady trying clothes on as you get to see her curves, maybe that skirt that she didn't realize was too short, oops her cleavage is showing and she just realized that with that shirt so she has to get another one. Just give me some pretzels and some fruit juice and I'm game for the wonderful show.

I CANNOT WAIT TILL I HAVE A G/F BEGGING ME TO GO SHOPPING WITH HER and I'm flaming heterosexual.

 

[Sonfest Rocker]

what if i dont want to distance my self from him
i need him in my life

 

[Blank123]

its your life and your decision ultimately. And I know its not an easy thing to do. I just know from experience that keeping a man in your life that you're in love with will keep you from moving on and finding real reciprocated love from someone else.

 

[Fremdin]

You need to be honest with yourself about what you love about him and don't act like him being gay isn't part of it. I am a professional fruit fly I am familiar with this situation, I have seen the end of this story and honey, it does not end well. Save yourself