how do I explain to extended family members about my BPD? They think I am just immature, screwed up or just have bad behavior. people think i can just 'stop' acting a certain way, as if im just purposing behaving that way to hurt others and be destructive. How do i avoid getting hurt by all the judgments, and condemnation by ignorant people.and another thing is that people can't find a balance between accomadating me and saying "suck it up buttercup", they are either one or the other, how do i teach them to love me in a balanced way?
I dont want to be babied, but people can be so insensitive.
I dont want to be babied, but people can be so insensitive.