I am, and have been going to through a very lustful life. I am in a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend who I intend on marrying in the next couple of years, and I can't seem to shake my lustful desires. I pray, and I have trust that I will overcome, but today seems harder then most. I know there is strength in Christ, and strength through Christ.. What I want to know is how do I gain that strength to make up for my lack of strength. I can't figure this out. Where do I get the strength from, where do I get the desire to turn away from lust from. It's all so, OUT OF MY CONTROL!