Hello, I suppose I'm not really looking for advice here, as I know that nothing that anyone says can fix that problem that I am having but I suppose that it is healthy for me to vent here on the internet because I have no other option for me to vent.
So I will explain my horrible situation with my father, and I suppose that all you should do is answer and say your opinion it would really help me to know that someone out there is listening to me.
Well first of I am fourteen years old, and well my parents are old.... Not talking late forties or anything like that I'm talking late fifties, my dad is 59 and my mom is 56. Yeh it's disturbing but oh well.
Now it hasn't been as much as a problem with my mom as you probably tell by the title of this question, I mean my mom is annoying and all but I can live with her.
The problem is my dad, and well to put pointless swearing aside he is a jerk. A BIG one, we have always had conflict with each other, I have no respect for him at all he is just an idiot with anger problems.
You see my dad is abusive. Not physically or verbally but emotionally. He's horrible, ignorant like a young annoying child. He has yelled at me, gotten upset, been COMPLETELY unreasonable towards me forever. And he gets angry over the smallest things it is pathetic.
My mom she just does nothing, she just stands stands back and watches. When I complain about all of the things my dad says all she simply does is say.
"You need to respect him, the bible says so." I heard that excuse for YEARS that it is ok the way my dad treats me, but when I try to show him how the way he acts is horrible my mom only has the courage then to go up to me and say that what I am doing is wrong.
My parents are EXTREMELY stuck-up Christians so near the beginning of this school year (8th grade) I decided to leave Christianity, as if to say to my mother "now what is your excuse?"
So then guess my dad does? He FORCES me to go to some youth group bible meeting and I refuse to go and so I became grounded once every week for not going somewhere.
I may have no respect for my father, true. But how the <staff edit> am I supposed to respect him?
Respect is something earned, not something I must give him just because it was written down in ink a few hundred thousand years ago.
I personally am stubborn, I will question someones <staff edit> authority.
That being said I do know how to be respectful, I just expect it to be given to me in return. So my mom left a few weeks ago and of course fighting has gotten worse, she won't come up until Augest 5th so I do not know what to do.
I could go on and on with stories about my dad but I decided to just leave it at here. I just wish that I could have a different set of parents, and have a different life, in a different town, I just wished that if God was real, he'd pick a life for me that is better then this.
So I will explain my horrible situation with my father, and I suppose that all you should do is answer and say your opinion it would really help me to know that someone out there is listening to me.
Well first of I am fourteen years old, and well my parents are old.... Not talking late forties or anything like that I'm talking late fifties, my dad is 59 and my mom is 56. Yeh it's disturbing but oh well.
Now it hasn't been as much as a problem with my mom as you probably tell by the title of this question, I mean my mom is annoying and all but I can live with her.
The problem is my dad, and well to put pointless swearing aside he is a jerk. A BIG one, we have always had conflict with each other, I have no respect for him at all he is just an idiot with anger problems.
You see my dad is abusive. Not physically or verbally but emotionally. He's horrible, ignorant like a young annoying child. He has yelled at me, gotten upset, been COMPLETELY unreasonable towards me forever. And he gets angry over the smallest things it is pathetic.
My mom she just does nothing, she just stands stands back and watches. When I complain about all of the things my dad says all she simply does is say.
"You need to respect him, the bible says so." I heard that excuse for YEARS that it is ok the way my dad treats me, but when I try to show him how the way he acts is horrible my mom only has the courage then to go up to me and say that what I am doing is wrong.
My parents are EXTREMELY stuck-up Christians so near the beginning of this school year (8th grade) I decided to leave Christianity, as if to say to my mother "now what is your excuse?"
So then guess my dad does? He FORCES me to go to some youth group bible meeting and I refuse to go and so I became grounded once every week for not going somewhere.
I may have no respect for my father, true. But how the <staff edit> am I supposed to respect him?
Respect is something earned, not something I must give him just because it was written down in ink a few hundred thousand years ago.
I personally am stubborn, I will question someones <staff edit> authority.
That being said I do know how to be respectful, I just expect it to be given to me in return. So my mom left a few weeks ago and of course fighting has gotten worse, she won't come up until Augest 5th so I do not know what to do.
I could go on and on with stories about my dad but I decided to just leave it at here. I just wish that I could have a different set of parents, and have a different life, in a different town, I just wished that if God was real, he'd pick a life for me that is better then this.
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